Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[Gildwulf]

I had a girlfriend for 3 years on-and-off who started taking Paxil about halfway through. Let's just say we fought a lot and it ended poorly. And Paxil definitely affected our sex lives.

Also, isn't OP being a little presumptious? You are her friend and she has made no motion towards sex with you that I can see in this thread. So your problem for OOT is 'what happens if at some point I stop being friends with this girl and we have a sex problem?'. GTFO of town.

[Phil153]

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Also, isn't OP being a little presumptious? You are her friend and she has made no motion towards sex with you that I can see in this thread.

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Dude, don't put ideas like that in his head. His balls will shrink up even more.

The fact is that she wants it BAD and he should go for it and post a trip report.

[Doc7]

In case there is a question about her having made a "motiion towards sex" ...

Girl is trying to convince me to get new clothes...whole shebang, shoes, boxers, shirts, hair, etc. I said "lol psht maybe for sexual favors" and the reply was "how about if the sexual favors come after the clothes" we kinda joked around for a bit because i didn' think she was serious, but then she listed all the things i had to do and i was like eh? and then...

GIRL (11:07:14 PM): hey thats the deal
DOC (11:07:16 PM): this is going to be like a $200 excursion
DOC (11:07:24 PM): explain the deal in words
GIRL (11:07:28 PM): haha i already did
DOC (11:07:38 PM): do it again

GIRL (11:07:44 PM): you have to do exactly what i say
GIRL (11:07:48 PM): no complaining
DOC (11:07:51 PM): and
GIRL (11:08:03 PM): and what lol
DOC (11:08:12 PM): theres gotta be an end-game in the deal for me geez
GIRL (11:08:17 PM): and then i get drunk
GIRL (11:08:48 PM): *tip* being drunk makes it harder to get off
a bit later, after i expressed some hesitation, concerning a bet with my friends (stupid bet really, but you'll get the gist of it from the convo)

GIRL (11:17:23 PM): its just hilarious that i offered to let you win the bet and you wont take it
DOC (11:18:37 PM): the bet involves intercourse
DOC (11:18:40 PM): for one thing
DOC (11:18:46 PM): and for another thing, i dont care about the bet
GIRL (11:18:53 PM): i know that
GIRL (11:21:55 PM): id rather that than other things
DOC (11:22:26 PM): lol why is that
GIRL (11:22:49 PM): then you're in charge, not me


DOC (11:32:39 PM): im pretty sure i just got bribed [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]
GIRL (11:32:56 PM): lol no you didnt get bribed
GIRL (11:33:07 PM): its just an extra part of it


is that better

this conversation occured BEFORE the whole "You know, Doc, I think I might actually have feelings for you but I need time to work it out" conversation, in case you're wondering why i didn't go tap it right then and there...in the other, second more serious conversation, she mentioned that it was a GOOD SIGN that I did not immediately say "so can i come over", which I am now extending to future physical agression; she thought it was good that i let it go slow at first, I do not see any reason to change my current course.

with the knowledge(that she told me she would have been like "umm nevermind" if I had immediately gone for the kill, do you guys STILL think I oughta just make a move on her?? I feel that's just going to backfire incredibly, and destroy our friendship which could still be maintained (I'm not going to lie; I am pretty emotionally dependent on her right now and I would rather it stay the way it is than have it get destroyed by doing something stupid/fast rather than slow/fixable)

[Clarkmeister]

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In case there is a question about her having made a "motiion towards sex" ...

Girl is trying to convince me to get new clothes...whole shebang, shoes, boxers, shirts, hair, etc. I said "lol psht maybe for sexual favors" and the reply was "how about if the sexual favors come after the clothes" we kinda joked around for a bit because i didn' think she was serious, but then she listed all the things i had to do and i was like eh? and then...

GIRL (11:07:14 PM): hey thats the deal
DOC (11:07:16 PM): this is going to be like a $200 excursion
DOC (11:07:24 PM): explain the deal in words
GIRL (11:07:28 PM): haha i already did
DOC (11:07:38 PM): do it again

GIRL (11:07:44 PM): you have to do exactly what i say
GIRL (11:07:48 PM): no complaining
DOC (11:07:51 PM): and
GIRL (11:08:03 PM): and what lol
DOC (11:08:12 PM): theres gotta be an end-game in the deal for me geez
GIRL (11:08:17 PM): and then i get drunk
GIRL (11:08:48 PM): *tip* being drunk makes it harder to get off
a bit later, after i expressed some hesitation, concerning a bet with my friends (stupid bet really, but you'll get the gist of it from the convo)

GIRL (11:17:23 PM): its just hilarious that i offered to let you win the bet and you wont take it
DOC (11:18:37 PM): the bet involves intercourse
DOC (11:18:40 PM): for one thing
DOC (11:18:46 PM): and for another thing, i dont care about the bet
GIRL (11:18:53 PM): i know that
GIRL (11:21:55 PM): id rather that than other things
DOC (11:22:26 PM): lol why is that
GIRL (11:22:49 PM): then you're in charge, not me


DOC (11:32:39 PM): im pretty sure i just got bribed [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]
GIRL (11:32:56 PM): lol no you didnt get bribed
GIRL (11:33:07 PM): its just an extra part of it


is that better

this conversation occured BEFORE the whole "You know, Doc, I think I might actually have feelings for you but I need time to work it out" conversation, in case you're wondering why i didn't go tap it right then and there...in the other, second more serious conversation, she mentioned that it was a GOOD SIGN that I did not immediately say "so can i come over", which I am now extending to future physical agression; she thought it was good that i let it go slow at first, I do not see any reason to change my current course.

with the knowledge(that she told me she would have been like "umm nevermind" if I had immediately gone for the kill, do you guys STILL think I oughta just make a move on her?? I feel that's just going to backfire incredibly, and destroy our friendship which could still be maintained (I'm not going to lie; I am pretty emotionally dependent on her right now and I would rather it stay the way it is than have it get destroyed by doing something stupid/fast rather than slow/fixable)

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omg. ok. This is for your own good, and for my sanity. If you don't post a trip report by Sunday night, I have no choice but to add you to the list. I can't take any more of this. If you don't nail her, you either hate her or you hate yourself. There's pretty much no other option.

And wtf is with you having this IM convo saved? Stop obsessing and start living. Sweet Jesus this is painful.

[Doc7]

DeadAIm, logs all my convos, plus I already posted it on here [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[Clarkmeister]

You have til Sunday.

[Gunny Highway]

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Sweet Jesus this is painful.

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[Conspir8or]

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Girl is trying to convince me to get new clothes...whole shebang, shoes, boxers, shirts, hair, etc. I said "lol psht maybe for sexual favors" and the reply was "how about if the sexual favors come after the clothes"

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How you should have responded IMO:

GIRL (11:07:14 PM): i want to take you shopping
DOC (11:07:16 PM): you wanna dress something up
DOC (11:07:24 PM): buy a ken doll
DOC (11:07:28 PM): you want a boyfriend
DOC (11:07:32 PM): i'll come over tomorrow so we can discuss it str8 up
[User DOC has logged out]

[Doc7]

she doesn't have mono.

she does have to go to the hospital.

guess who's driving

[Doc7]

I scored mega points with her parents after spending 12 hours in the hospital today, and tomorrow night sparks are going to fly... Your trip report is going to be here in 36 hours Clark.