Wife does not give felatio

[holdme]

yeah no joke. when he married her, he made a lifelong commitment to no head.

[holdme]

has he tried sticking his dick in a pizza box? i hear that that works.

[thephenom]

I'm the OP and just to follow up:

The dude mentioned is a pretty good friend of mine, and I do believe that the BJ situation was the same as BEFORE they were married. In their relationship, the guy is pretty much whipped.

[SpaceAce]

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I'm the OP and just to follow up:

The dude mentioned is a pretty good friend of mine, and I do believe that the BJ situation was the same as BEFORE they were married. In their relationship, the guy is pretty much whipped.

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In that case, your friend is getting exactly what he deserves.

SpaceAce

[Fedorfan]

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I must be the only guy in the world who doesn't really care about that. I'd much rather just bang.

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That's what i use to say until i dated a girl who was amazing at giving head and liked to do it. Imagine getting back very late with your girl from a night out drinking with friends, too drunk and tired to really want to bang. So instead she goes down on you like a champ, while you lay there with a little grin on your face, after she's done you quickly pass out, life does not get much better imo.

Also have you ever been woken up to a girl going down on your morning wood... I don't mean to brag, let's just say i highly recommend it.

[thephenom]

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I must be the only guy in the world who doesn't really care about that. I'd much rather just bang.

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That's what i use to say until i dated a girl who was amazing at giving head and liked to do it. Imagine getting back very late with your girl from a night out drinking with friends, too drunk and tired to really want to bang. So instead she goes down on you like a champ, while you lay there with a little grin on your face, after she's done you quickly pass out, life does not get much better imo.

Also have you ever been woken up to a girl going down on your morning wood... I don't mean to brag, let's just say i highly recommend it.

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Exactly. BJs are my favorite part of sex. Its so awesome to just lay back, relax and have your [censored] taken care of.

[Quicksilvre]

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In their relationship, the guy is pretty much whipped.

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Well, this changes my opinion, then. Your friend is utterly screwed for the long haul.

[XXXNoahXXX]

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Noah,

"are there really girls that don't give head?"

A few years ago I was seeing a girl for a couple of months. She was the craziest sex I ever had, liked to bang all the time and super hard and in a zillion positions. Was just super intense and she was great in bed. She loved having me go down on her. She didn't give head. Period.

I later talked w/ two other ex-boyfriends of hers and another guy she had hooked up with and all of them confirmed the same thing.

I figure there were probably some deeper issues behind this, but I never got that close to her to find out about anything like that.

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El D,

"Period." What does this mean? Did she ever give a reason or was it something that just wasn't talked about?

I mean, I've had girls that obviously didn't enjoy it and viewed it as a chore, but when it came down to it, they knew that if they didn't, then I wasn't.

Maybe if you think its based on deeper issues its not worth having her break down crying and miss out on great sex because of the ensuing awkwardness.


I can understand not liking deep throating, or being afraid you were bad at it, but as long as the dude is clean, its just flesh, and all you gotta do is lick it. Going down on a girl is much more intimate IMO.

[miajag]

Usually it's just a symptom of her being a prissy, stuck-up bitch, which is a much bigger problem than the simple lack of head.

Or she got molested.

[FlyWf]

Relatively serious response,
Providing sexual pleasure to your partner is part of the job of being a spouse.

This is akin to someone saying that they won't do the dishes or take out the trash or whatever. You can bargain to not do something like that, but you can't just unilaterally refuse to play your role.

Dan Savage has a pretty good position on this. If you aren't willing to fulfill a given sexual desire of your mate, you aren't allowed to get angry at them if they employ a third party to satisfy themselves.