Hypothetical First Date Question. (Subject Matter NSFW).

[jalexand42]

bison: A+ contributions.

[Double Ice]

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Unless you think she's really on her period and can be coaxed into moving further, the "keep kissing her" advice is probably bad.

Tell her its ok. Stop kissing her, remove yourself from her, distance yourself a little bit. If the lights are off, turn them on. Flick on the tv or something else to take your attention away from her. Basically just end any kissing, touching, physical contact you were having. Don't totally ignore her, because then she'll think you're a bitter jerk only out to screw her. Rather, make it clear that you respect her wish and are done with doing anything sexual. You don't need to say anything to do this. She was making out with you, she was enjoying it, she's aroused, she wanted to continue. If she wasn't, or she just hangs out for a little and leaves, you definitely weren't getting laid anyway. Wait until she tries to kiss you again. If it takes a long time you might be screwed and need a new plan, so if she tries to move close to you again or kiss you just go with it and hope for the best. If it doesn't take a long time, push her away again, maybe comment on how you thought she didn't want to go any further. If she says that she does, or just her next attempt, this is when you try to get her to go back to your room, and go from there.

I've been in similar situations in the past and have had no idea what to do and totally [censored] myself, so don't make that mistake

-Jeff

edit- if you think I'm an idiot and don't know what I'm talking about and think that you do, please post any situation you were in similar to OP's, since I'm sure someone with your experience runs into this type of last minute resistance all the time, and explain what you did, and why it worked. I would definitely be interested to hear another detailed story.

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The OP, as described (which is obviously fictional or badly relayed) she says "i will" which implies no LMR.

However, you are correct that the right way to deal with LMR is to stop pushing. On the other hand, it isn't LMR unless she says "no" or physically resists you. Otherwise, traz's advice is certainly correct, and you should keep at the level you are at (if you are kissing her, keep kissing) to get her more comfortable.

So, to make my point clear: When at a location where it is possible to have sex, and you can keep kissing/fingering/etc., and she doesn't resist or say "no", it is almost always correct to continue. When she resists or says no, it is almost always correct to freeze her out like you described. Hope this helps someone.

Dice

[Double Ice]

Err, anyways, about the period thing, "I understand" and continue is the best response. And the reason the OP is a badly relayed story is because there shouldn't be much talking, as it ruins the escalation you are building.

[bisonbison]

Don't say "I understand." She doesn't need your understanding. Say, "Okay". Then go to the bedroom and either eff or not.

[gumpzilla]

Invite her to purify herself in the menstruation tent you keep in your room for just this purpose.

You do have a tent, don't you?

[bisonbison]

Invite her to purify herself in the menstruation tent you keep in your room for just this purpose.

He'll still be ritually unpure and unfit for the temple.

Burn a dove.

[samsonite2100]

Any response other than "I don't mind if you don't mind" is really gay.

[Knight Vision]

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Any response other than "I don't mind if you don't mind" is really gay.

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Ya, wtf? Ftw.

Thanks for waiting to post though, cuz had you posted earlier we would have missed the Bison witch post cuz this is /thread.

[oddjob]

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**chic here--and i've already proved my gender to ElD and others, so i'm no longer entertaining any comments about this**

Mason hit it on the head (and those that agreed w/him)-- women are most horny on their periods. I've rarely had a man not wanna have sex with me on my period...and if he did oppose, i would think why would i want to continue to date him if he is not gonna wanna have sex when i'm most horny each month. And it is not gross. The plus for you guys is that the woman will be so turned on, thus you having better sex.
No offense Jeff, but your advice sucks..which may explain your problem in this situation.
I voted #1- and the poll surprised me b/c most voted #2! No wonder you all have problems getting women.

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yah, but you're forgetting that most of us will blow our loads in like 2 mins, and our make up for this is eating her out for an hour. and that's just gross when the red seas aren't parted.

[Knight Vision]

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**chic here--and i've already proved my gender to ElD and others, so i'm no longer entertaining any comments about this**

Mason hit it on the head (and those that agreed w/him)-- women are most horny on their periods. I've rarely had a man not wanna have sex with me on my period...and if he did oppose, i would think why would i want to continue to date him if he is not gonna wanna have sex when i'm most horny each month. And it is not gross. The plus for you guys is that the woman will be so turned on, thus you having better sex.
No offense Jeff, but your advice sucks..which may explain your problem in this situation.
I voted #1- and the poll surprised me b/c most voted #2! No wonder you all have problems getting women.

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This entire post shows you have a fundamental misunderstanding of men.

a) Nobody cares that you proved your womenhood to ElD, we still want pics.

b) Nobody is going to admit to doing the bloodsport, even on an anonymous poll.

c) Nobody cares if you continue to date us for not having sex with us, because there is no chance we would ever turn it down in the first place.

d) Nobody cares if you are horny.

e) The degree of your arousal is only important to us in so much that it directly effects how long our face will be near your butthole.

f) Nobody is not getting women because they voted #2. They aren't getting women AND they voted #2 while thinking #1 and posting "don't do it man" but really just wanting pics of hypothetical girl or you or both holding a SIIMP sign and hoping for a chick looking like the German beer chick or a pole vaulter and will be rubbing one out to some internet pic whether or not you or OP post one.