Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[DK47]

so your the girl in this relationship right?

[Blarg]

Yup. Who wants to be "Plan B"?

[Dominic]

why do you guys insist on having these kind of girls as "friends?" Has no one read my first Dr. Dom?

All you're doing is torturing yourself.

She's "considering things?" [censored] her! You're the bomb, you're DA MAN, you are every girl's dream come true! f she needs to consider anything before jumping into a relationship (or bed) with you - after knowing you for HOW LONG?? - than you know what? Screw her. Tell her, "sayonora, Sweetheart. Let me know when you've made up your mind." And don't call her again.

Why do you do this to yourself??? Move on. You have enough "friends" in your life that you do not need this kind of bullshyte.

I'm not talking about being an azzhole, or treating women badly, I'm talking about being a freakin' MAN.

[silversurfer]

Look, as others have said (but you seem to need all the reinforcement you can get): make a [censored] move already.

You are so afraid that you are going to f it up by doing something that you are f'ing it up even worse by your indecision. Women can smell a lack of confidence a loooooong ways off.

Make your move, stop worrying about how your "dream girl" is going to freak out - because if it doesn't work out, she wasn't your "dream girl" to begin with, was she? You're in college - tail practically grows on trees.

[zephed]

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Skip studying and show up at her door immediately. Be bold. Do whatever it takes to get in her pants. You need to give her a real good time. You need to let her know that you cannot continue this friendship with her. It's either be with you or nice knowing ya.

You have an unhealthy friendship with this girl that will probably kill you inside for a long time if you don't make a move. This 3rd guy is a real problem that needs to be taken care of immediately. You can't wait until friday.

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Well, did you bang her yet? Really, she needs to get banged by you or else you'll always be a friend. Bang her. Do it. Come on man. Don't be a pussy, eat it!

[Clarkmeister]

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Well, did you bang her yet?

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[Doc7]

OK here is/WAS the plan. Last night I was going to trade her mardi gras beads for a kiss but the opportunity did not present itself. I already have plans made with her for this weekend. As we have been discussing things and she has said (jokingly but at the same time with a tinge of seriousness) "I think you're just devious, and wouldn't be friends with me if you weren't trying to get laid" (Which is at least partly true...I doubt I would remain close with her if there 0.00% chance of any action at all)

So my plan was to take this line of reasoning, and get her in here Friday/Saturday night, and at one of the moments when we are particularly close (eg she is leaning over me to use my computer or something like that) say "Can I do something devious?" 'What do you mean?' "I want to kiss you" or something along those lines. Gives her the opportunity to say "ehh no" and get outta here for pushing the question when I'm supposed to be giving her time without actually making a physical move on her (Which i would consider to be a dick move) but also the opportunity for things to start in motion.

That WAS the plan.

She has decided she is going to get tested for mono tomorrow. Whether she gets tested or not, assuming the results won't be back before Friday night, what is my play if she says "i might have mono, thats a bad idea" ??? I had it all planned out in a way that i thought was still being pushy (and carries a great risk/reward) but better than sitting around twiddling my thumbs, and now this mono [censored] is going to interfere?

It's spring break next week, so this is my last chance to establish myself physically with the setup I have after a week of spending extensive amounts of time with her before we possibly don't even speak for a week (conversely, we could cement our plans to meet up, which are thin at best as of right now).

What's my play given the mono testing situation?[i] Assumption for repy posters: She does not actually have mono and is just her usual tired self. She has gotten tested at least 3 times in the past for mono which she is always scared she has, due to her extreme tiredness at all times. All times the result was negative, and I am fairly sure this time is no different.[i/i]

[bisonbison]

'Mono'

[Doc7]

Mononucleosis, right?

Edit: she admits she does not have any of the symptoms of mono such as sore throat etc. She is basing this only on the fact that she is tired all the time, which I blame directly on the fact that she sleeps through meals, and as such, does not have the energy to get moving to more meals, etc. in the last three days, she's eaten twice, and one of those was because I woke her ass up pounding on the door with a tuna sandwhich in my hand.

[balkii]

have you dated any girls during this year or so you've been crushing on her? if the answer is no you should definitely try to. this will make her jealous and realize she wants your nuts.