So I had a date tonight

[rubbrband]

Beat: If you were just another scumbag she might have sexed you and not thought twice about it.
Beat: Going about things in such a traditional matter made her think about long term relationship potential.
Beat: No sexy time
Brag: You did v well

[Poofler]

[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ]
goofy give a shot at dating older women. 28-35 would be the best range here.

youre dating all these young stupid bitches who enjoy dating guys who treat them like [censored] all the time and make them feel miserable. youre too nice of a guy to be having to mess around with these morons.

[/ QUOTE ]

Great advice....although really 22+ will put you in better shape than 18-21.

-JP

[/ QUOTE ]

Yeah, once they have a 9-5 grind, had drunken hookups in college, and have already been treated like crap by several semi-serious boyfriends your approach will fair much better. Until then - I know it's cliche - but acting less interested and less polite will go a long way.

Edit: FFK response in OOT to illustrate.

"Seriously though, it's human nature to become disinterested in things we take for granted. If someone is so incredibly available all the time, it's not exciting or challenging. It's like the battle is already won. I think this applies both to men and women."

Just make the battle harder with younger girls, presuming you're decent looking. And Grey basically said you were hot.

[remi983]

"I've been on TWO DATES THIS YEAR, and in one of them the girl apparently didn't even realize it was a date, and then there's this."

That's your prob. Two dates is an incredibly small sample size. You gotta get in there and play the game. Just be detached from the outcomes. Look @ it like poker: don't be results oriented and results will follow. Your date plan, approach and execution are all great. This particular girl just didn't respond well. It happens...Find some better girls to take out.

[whoisthedrizzle]

Goofy, a woman is a lot like a refrigerator. They're about six feet tall, 300 pounds. They make ice, and... um... Oh, wait a minute. Actually, a woman is more like a beer. They smell good, they look good, you'd step over your own mother just to get one. But you can't stop at one, you wanna drink another woman!

So, if my advice isn't yet clear, what I'm saying is that you just have to go out there tomorrow and find another
woman so you can get as drunk as you possibly can. And sometimes you gotta pay, that's just how it is. If that doesn't suit your fancy here are six little words that might make your life a little bit easier:

I'm not gay, but I'll learn.

[PITTM]

[ QUOTE ]
man if i was there i'd give you a hug.

bitches, man. bitches.

[/ QUOTE ]

Troothinessoftheday

[cts]

alllcoohol

[snagglepuss]

painful

hint: don't fall in love with every girl you meet

[Grey]

I want to punch your avatar

[Gone Forever]

Goofy, I found myself in a similar situation a few years ago. I had been talking to this girl I was digging and everything seemed to be going in the right direction. I called her up said "Hey what're you doing Saturday?" she says "Nothing." So I give the whole "Why don't you let me take you out? How about this Saturday?" She says cool.

So Saturday comes around. I call her up. Ask her what she's doing just making with the small talk bs. She says "Getting ready to go to this concert."

WTF?!

So I explain to her that when I mentioned letting me take her out I was pretty much asking her out on a date. She's like "Ohh. Really? Was I leading you on? I'm not really looking for a boyfriend...." I'm like "Yes, totally! You completely lead me on." Blah blah. I tell her I gotta go. We hang up.

So at this point I'm a nice combo of embarrassed, let down, and PISSED OFF. I'm sitting there stewing. Going over my options I figure, I'm probably not going to hang out with this girl again because it'd be way to awkward and embarrassing for me. Plus I'm pretty pissed that she played me like that, so, I say "[censored] it!".

I call her right back. She answers. I say "You say you don't want a boyfriend. Fine. If you ever just wanna get down, you give me a call. No strings attached."

She says "Reaaaally?"

Me: "Totally."

I swear to god, not more than 5 hours later she calls me and tells me to come over. I do, and we proceed to have the craziest sex I've ever had. She was a complete and total FREAK! She said some of the nastiest [censored] I've ever heard come out of a chicks mouth. AND she called me by my nickname instead of my real name which I found odd yet so [censored] hot at the same time.

Anyway. Moral of the story: If you know you're probably not going to talk to or hang out with this chick any more, what have you got to lose?

[Poofler]

Your post wins life.