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#541
08-11-2007, 05:19 PM
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Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)
i would like to buy bkholdem's wife a drink.
guids, the sartorialist IS a bit pretentious, and your golf analogy is not quite fitting. 
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#544
08-11-2007, 05:47 PM
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Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)
I skipped about 40 pages of posts but I wanted to say something. I watched the VH1 show and that Mystery guy and his two friends that hang around him like testicles are all complete losers.
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#545
08-11-2007, 05:51 PM
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Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)
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[ QUOTE ] bk, you're going to have to explain to me how learning how to carry yourself out of a damn book makes you anything but another follower. [/ QUOTE ] Learning to change in ways you want, and that you consider to be a personal improvement, in order to get more satisfaction out of life is not being a sheep. Being a sheep is following 'the croud'. The croud asks to be set up by friends, gets drunk to have sex, finds drunk chicks to have sex, offers chicks drinks and dinners in the hopes she will open her legs for him while telling himself he is a 'nice guy'. Sheep do what everyone else does. [/ QUOTE ] You are/were just following a different crowd/croud and doing what they told you. Acting as if PUA makes you all unique and as a result superior is a bit absurd regardless of it's merits.
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#546
08-11-2007, 05:53 PM
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Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)
[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] bk, you're going to have to explain to me how learning how to carry yourself out of a damn book makes you anything but another follower. [/ QUOTE ] Learning to change in ways you want, and that you consider to be a personal improvement, in order to get more satisfaction out of life is not being a sheep. Being a sheep is following 'the croud'. The croud asks to be set up by friends, gets drunk to have sex, finds drunk chicks to have sex, offers chicks drinks and dinners in the hopes she will open her legs for him while telling himself he is a 'nice guy'. Sheep do what everyone else does. [/ QUOTE ] You are/were just following a different crowd/croud and doing what they told you. Acting as if PUA makes you all unique and as a result superior is a bit absurd regardless of it's merits. [/ QUOTE ] The whole theory behind PUA is that you be yourself and do whatever YOU want to do. If you can't understand how this isn't following the crowd, then there's no point in discussing it with you. Learning how to be yourself from a book isn't following the crowd. It's pretty obvious clear you're not clear on what PUA is and you're coming in with a pessimistic attitude, so please to be opening up your mind
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#547
08-11-2007, 05:55 PM
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Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)
Alamo,
At what point in your initial conversation(s) do you say "Just so you know, I'm not looking for anything other than sex from you"?
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#548
08-11-2007, 05:56 PM
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Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)
[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] bk, you're going to have to explain to me how learning how to carry yourself out of a damn book makes you anything but another follower. [/ QUOTE ] Learning to change in ways you want, and that you consider to be a personal improvement, in order to get more satisfaction out of life is not being a sheep. Being a sheep is following 'the croud'. The croud asks to be set up by friends, gets drunk to have sex, finds drunk chicks to have sex, offers chicks drinks and dinners in the hopes she will open her legs for him while telling himself he is a 'nice guy'. Sheep do what everyone else does. [/ QUOTE ] You are/were just following a different crowd/croud and doing what they told you. Acting as if PUA makes you all unique and as a result superior is a bit absurd regardless of it's merits. [/ QUOTE ] The whole theory behind PUA is that you be yourself and do whatever YOU want to do. If you can't understand how this isn't following the crowd, then there's no point in discussing it with you. Learning how to be yourself from a book isn't following the crowd. It's pretty clear you're not clear on what PUA is, so please to be opening up your mind [/ QUOTE ] Traz, we are ingrained from a very early age by the media, our teachers, our parents to be an indiviual. just like everyone else. this is kind of unfair cicular logic though. you cant deny though, that if a mass of guys, pretty much all w/ the same goal, reads the same books, and talk to teh same people on an online forum, and are taught to interact w/ girls in the same way, even if only at the beginning, that there will be a lot fo homogeneity among them.
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#549
08-11-2007, 06:00 PM
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Re: Some Stuff About PUA (very long)
[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] [ QUOTE ] bk, you're going to have to explain to me how learning how to carry yourself out of a damn book makes you anything but another follower. [/ QUOTE ] Learning to change in ways you want, and that you consider to be a personal improvement, in order to get more satisfaction out of life is not being a sheep. Being a sheep is following 'the croud'. The croud asks to be set up by friends, gets drunk to have sex, finds drunk chicks to have sex, offers chicks drinks and dinners in the hopes she will open her legs for him while telling himself he is a 'nice guy'. Sheep do what everyone else does. [/ QUOTE ] You are/were just following a different crowd/croud and doing what they told you. Acting as if PUA makes you all unique and as a result superior is a bit absurd regardless of it's merits. [/ QUOTE ] The whole theory behind PUA is that you be yourself and do whatever YOU want to do. If you can't understand how this isn't following the crowd, then there's no point in discussing it with you. Learning how to be yourself from a book isn't following the crowd. It's pretty clear you're not clear on what PUA is, so please to be opening up your mind [/ QUOTE ] Traz, we are ingrained from a very early age by the media, our teachers, our parents to be an indiviual. just like everyone else. [/ QUOTE ] right, so no one ends up being individual. I understand what you're saying. But the fact remains, all good PUA material emphasizes being yourself (your best self), and doing what works for you. It does NOT emphasize cookie cutter lines and a homogenous system for everyone... that's just pure marketing.
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#550
08-11-2007, 06:00 PM
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Alamo, At what point in your initial conversation(s) do you say "Just so you know, I'm not looking for anything other than sex from you"? [/ QUOTE ] after your done with teh sex. rim shot!
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