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#402
03-29-2006, 10:31 PM
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Re: Will lips touch lips in the next 24 hours?
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Doc, please keep us updated. You made plans to catch up for the weekend? [/ QUOTE ] In addition to all of this stuff, she is also my best friend. I eat dinner with her each night, and been in her room doing homework/etc the last few days. However she has told me (AGAIN) that it's her move and I shouldn't do anything. I'm ignoring the advice to do stuff that will possibly get me laid and possibly lose me my best friend, in the interest of letting this go at her pace. I'm not in a rush. I am changing some things about how I approach this, not typing it up now though (Lost plus homework to do) |
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#404
03-29-2006, 10:32 PM
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Re: Will lips touch lips in the next 24 hours?
Doc,
You're a real sweetheart, you know that? Ray |
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#405
03-29-2006, 10:56 PM
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Re: Will lips touch lips in the next 24 hours?
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However she has told me (AGAIN) that it's her move and I shouldn't do anything.I'm ignoring the advice to do stuff that will possibly get me laid and possibly lose me my best friend, in the interest of letting this go at her pace. [/ QUOTE ] Ok cool, I'll stop giving advice to the contrary, since you don't want to take that angle. That said, she has definitely done/said stuff to lead you on recently, have you made that point to her? Can I also ask: Assuming you had the opportunity to get it on with another chick (casually) in the meantime, would you consider it? |
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#406
03-29-2006, 11:12 PM
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Re: Will lips touch lips in the next 24 hours?
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That said, she has definitely done/said stuff to lead you on recently, have you made that point to her? [/ QUOTE ] She made that point to me. She is sending seriously mixed signals. Telling me at times that she feels bad about doing that and then saying "I dunnoooooo" after (like she did after we made out, and then again after this weekend), and that she is worried I'm going to come out of this hating her if it takes one of several possible endings. I think this is part of the reason she ISN'T letting this go farther, she's sure (and maybe/probably right) that I would put a little too much emotional stock into her. Oh but to the mixed signals part, she's also frequently discussing future things happening. Our conversations go like "i feel bad about making you think that maybe im just leading you on but im not" <sex joke or two > "haha speaking of which, you better last more than 8 seconds or im going to kill you" [ QUOTE ] Can I also ask: Assuming you had the opportunity to get it on with another chick (casually) in the meantime, would you consider it? [/ QUOTE ] I do not know. I have been considering going out and testing the waters which I have not done for well over a year, because frankly I am in a steady-state with this girl, and throwing other women into the mix would complicate an already complicated situation. Not to mention that if this really IS going anywhere, and I hook up with another girl, that would be greenlighting her to go hook up with another guy which would only set me back. She's currently on AIM trying to get me to come over to do homework. I'm going to go and see what happens. |
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#407
03-29-2006, 11:17 PM
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Re: Will lips touch lips in the next 24 hours?
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I think this is part of the reason she ISN'T letting this go farther, she's sure (and maybe/probably right) that I would put a little too much emotional stock into her. [/ QUOTE ] You already have. |
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#408
03-29-2006, 11:23 PM
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Re: Will lips touch lips in the next 24 hours?
Doc,
Since you have not even seen, much less touched, her naked breast or vagina, you are definitely not "at 2nd/3rd base with her." "she is also my best friend." Wow. "to do stuff that will possibly get me laid" There's nothing you can do to get laid by this chick. She is never going to let you do a thing to her. "I am changing some things about how I approach this" Do her homework, brush her hair, buy her dinner, and let her take it at her pace? Hahaha, good times, dude. "I'm not in a rush." Doc, she is never having sex with you, ever. Everyone in the world knows this except for you. |
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#410
03-29-2006, 11:26 PM
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Re: Will lips touch lips in the next 24 hours?
Doc,
"I am in a steady-state with this girl" A steady-state that includes never ever having sex with her no matter what. "if this really IS going anywhere" Hhahaahahaaahhhhhaha "greenlighting her to go hook up with another guy" Dude, trust me, she already has the green light. If she wants to hook up with someone, she will. She probably already has, but just hasn't told you. She'll probably only tell you if she gets really mad at one of the guys that nails her and needs someone to cry to. " which would only set me back." You have nothing to be set back from! "trying to get me to come over to do homework. I'm going to go and see what happens." Wild guess. You'll do homework. Maybe brush some hair. |
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