banging chicks from myspace.com

[Vehn]

I'm comfortable enough to recognize a good looking guy when I see one. Plus its not gay if you're giving you know.

[Tomfoolery]

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Plus its not gay if you're giving you know.

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that's my mantra

[Chump Change]

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if you do a palm reading or anything that needs a volunteer, dont do it to her, do it to her friends.
Barron

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I knew my game was lacking a crucial component.



(nice rhymes, btw)

[oreopimp]

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Oreopimp,

Have u shared your MySpace page w/ us yet?

-Brian

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Link

Ive been lazy but its like a conglomeration of things while I was in my last relationship and being single. Working on getting it more streamlined, but for now it works.

Music choices are being changed around.

[DcifrThs]

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if you do a palm reading or anything that needs a volunteer, dont do it to her, do it to her friends.
Barron

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I knew my game was lacking a crucial component.



(nice rhymes, btw)

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ty. and for what it's worth, ive never used any of these negs or 'game' techniques.

i am just always me. i have no fear though and am pretty confident despite being oversensitive in some respects. my 'game' is pretty simple too and im surprised that more people dont use it all the time...

step 1) spot girl. singular one girl. by herself not in bar scene.

step 2) go up to girl and say something liek "Hi, im *insert name here*. i wanted to introduce myself."

step 3) guage reaction. if positive (i.e. "HI, im XYZ" accompanied by a rise in teh voice or good eye contact or some positive feeling reaction), continue w/ small talk. if negative (i.e. "uh, ok, hi, im XYZ. whats YOUR deal?" or something like that, just say 'oh, ah, nothing, i just wanted to say hi' and then walk away. sometimes she'll say "oh wait a sec." and you're in) leave situation.

step 4) get her # and/or arrange future meeting.

simple. yet when i tell stories of how ive met girls my friends/family and other girls are always like "omg, thats amazing." it really isn't and i swear it's very easy.

btw, for reference, id rate myself as a 5.5 out of 10 in terms of looks. juuuust slightly above average.

Barron

[Hitchhiker]

Amusing factoid I thought I'd share (along with my rookie mistake...)

I met a girl in a bar last night, brought her home, and we did it once last night and again this morning. When I woke up, I found myself wishing I had met her on myspace so I could trainwreck this. She is, as my good buddy Vince Vaughn would say, a stage 5 clinger (but not as hot as in the movie). The kind of girl you really wish (or at least I do) you didn't give your number to before you left the bar.

Rookie Mistake: "So do you want to stay?" Yeah, that's right, I asked

Pro: Morning Sex
Con: She's got my damn number, now what?

[allaboutmyfetti]

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Amusing factoid I thought I'd share (along with my rookie mistake...)

I met a girl in a bar last night, brought her home, and we did it once last night and again this morning. When I woke up, I found myself wishing I had met her on myspace so I could trainwreck this. She is, as my good buddy Vince Vaughn would say, a stage 5 clinger (but not as hot as in the movie). The kind of girl you really wish (or at least I do) you didn't give your number to before you left the bar.

Rookie Mistake: "So do you want to stay?" Yeah, that's right, I asked

Pro: Morning Sex
Con: She's got my damn number, now what?

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Hey guys, been lurking this thread a while but never posted.. I think I have to give advice to hitchicker though.

Hitchhiker - your best play at this point is to really push for anal. Either she won't be into it, get weirded out and stop calling you OR she will be into it & u get to do a chick in the butt. Either way you win.

my .02

[MyTurn2Raise]

nice first post in the thread

[Hitchhiker]

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Amusing factoid I thought I'd share (along with my rookie mistake...)

I met a girl in a bar last night, brought her home, and we did it once last night and again this morning. When I woke up, I found myself wishing I had met her on myspace so I could trainwreck this. She is, as my good buddy Vince Vaughn would say, a stage 5 clinger (but not as hot as in the movie). The kind of girl you really wish (or at least I do) you didn't give your number to before you left the bar.

Rookie Mistake: "So do you want to stay?" Yeah, that's right, I asked

Pro: Morning Sex
Con: She's got my damn number, now what?

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Hey guys, been lurking this thread a while but never posted.. I think I have to give advice to hitchicker though.

Hitchhiker - your best play at this point is to really push for anal. Either she won't be into it, get weirded out and stop calling you OR she will be into it & u get to do a chick in the butt. Either way you win.

my .02

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Though I appreaciate the advice, I'm actually fairly concerned she'd do it, and that would be bad.

The relevant point here was how my first thoughts after she left were that I wish I could post this as a trip report, and then "train wreck!" This thread has completely taken over my life, it seems. Just thought you should all know that.

Oh, and real myspace leads to come soon.

[dhaimon]

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if you do a palm reading or anything that needs a volunteer, dont do it to her, do it to her friends.
Barron

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I knew my game was lacking a crucial component.



(nice rhymes, btw)

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ty. and for what it's worth, ive never used any of these negs or 'game' techniques.

i am just always me. i have no fear though and am pretty confident despite being oversensitive in some respects. my 'game' is pretty simple too and im surprised that more people dont use it all the time...

step 1) spot girl. singular one girl. by herself not in bar scene.

step 2) go up to girl and say something liek "Hi, im *insert name here*. i wanted to introduce myself."

step 3) guage reaction. if positive (i.e. "HI, im XYZ" accompanied by a rise in teh voice or good eye contact or some positive feeling reaction), continue w/ small talk. if negative (i.e. "uh, ok, hi, im XYZ. whats YOUR deal?" or something like that, just say 'oh, ah, nothing, i just wanted to say hi' and then walk away. sometimes she'll say "oh wait a sec." and you're in) leave situation.

step 4) get her # and/or arrange future meeting.

simple. yet when i tell stories of how ive met girls my friends/family and other girls are always like "omg, thats amazing." it really isn't and i swear it's very easy.

btw, for reference, id rate myself as a 5.5 out of 10 in terms of looks. juuuust slightly above average.

Barron

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My game completely sucks. It's not that I'm ugly or anything, I'm just not comfortable hitting on girls in bars. Though this might be a culture thing as it's normal to have house parties before we hit the bars / clubs here because of the rediculus prices ($10 for a beer, $15 for a shot etc), and because of that you really get to talk to each girl a bit before really leaving. I've always done fine at the house parties but it's not really the place to be closing. And obviously it doesn't work when it's guys night out or a similar event.

And this sounds like an approach I'd be comfortable with. I'll try this and provide trip report if successful / interesting enough.