Kinda weird situation... - Page 4

onthebutton · #31 04-26-2006, 05:21 PM

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This is because anyone who is my friend knows that i am loyal and wouldn't do anything to betray their friendship.

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Umm, then why the original question?

El Diablo · #32 04-26-2006, 05:22 PM

gg,

" This is because anyone who is my friend knows that i am loyal and wouldn't do anything to betray their friendship. "

Yeah, I mean, it's not like you'd talk sht about their sex life with their gf or anything while she's laying in your lap and slapping your ass and obviously you're not touching her at all.

cdxx · #33 04-26-2006, 05:23 PM

ggb,

there's nothing wrong telling to her privately and discretely, "look, this other guy is my friend, and you are kinda flirty, so i just want to make sure i am wrong about all these signals."

James Boston · #34 04-26-2006, 05:24 PM

gg,

There were several social/debutant clubs where I went to HS. They used to have "Crush Party" where the girls were allowed to send 2-3 annonymous invitations. The girls with boyfriends almost always used all their invitations so their boyfriend could have his friends there. If you're buddy is cool with it, go ahead.

ggbman · #35 04-26-2006, 05:28 PM

Lol, you are taking this too seriously. For example, i am positive one of your firends gf's at some point has been flirty with you. Now, you know you are 100% not going to touch this chick because she is with your buddy. Do you feel the need to call her out on being flirty while drunk?

Anyway, i am not going to spend to much energy trying to impress you here. If you want an
example
of the calibur of friend i am, this might help. But if you want to form you own opinions based on one piece of information when you don't know me, then go ahead.

DpR · #36 04-26-2006, 05:29 PM

GG,

First off, El D is going a little over board, but that said you should cut this flirty stuff out. I have been in that situation, and what seems no big deal right now will laed to more stuff down the road and then all of a sudden she is kissing you and you are in a tough spot.

This chick is worth nothing compared to a close college buddy. You really need to cut that stuff off.

As for the pinning, ask your buddy, and make sure you do not hang out with his GF when you get there. Hooking up with another chick would be perfect.....

onthebutton · #37 04-26-2006, 05:33 PM

I can tell you one thing, ggbman: We damn sure expect a trip report.

ggbman · #38 04-26-2006, 05:34 PM

Ok man, please just give it a rest. I included that as relevant information because if people think that a sign perhaps that is a sign of being more than just flirty, then I should definitly not go, as it can't end well. However, if that is just being flirty or whatever, then i could go have a good time with my friends.

I have been friends with the same people (who are all awesome, good people btw) for a long time. This wouldn't be the case if i acted in the manner you are portyarying. Taking information i include in the OP so thtat people can factor that in the the appropriatness of my going and making it seem like i want that to happen is just dumb. If i didn't care about this guy as a friend, i wouldn't have asked for feedback, because i know he would just say "it doesn't bother" and i wanted a chance to do the right thing. Stop being a douche and making it seem like i am out to nail her or something. I have not, nor will ever hook up with someone who is with or is important to my friends. In fact in HS, ther was a girl who i wanted to hook up with, but she was going out with some guy who i didnt even know. She offered to hook up no strings attached, but i declined because i am not into breaking people up.

ggbman · #39 04-26-2006, 05:38 PM

Yeah i agree he is overboard, and i agree the flirty stuff should stop. I make a point not to iniatiate it, and i will make more of an effort to activley discourage it. If diablo had aid that, i wouldn't have taken offense at all. it's just that natrually, on a night where i am 17 drinks deep or whatever, my thought process might not be as clear, so i don't discourage it as activley as i should.

27offsuit · #40 04-26-2006, 05:42 PM

Have you told your bestest friend that his gf calls him a "one minute man" and that she thinks you are "so much cooler" than he is yet?

I know I would surely be interested in that information if I was your best friend....