banging chicks from myspace.com

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Barron,

I very much had a similar experience from myspace where I just totally clicked with someone. She eventually asked me out and well its a really long story.

One bit of advice, make sure you do things to remain a challange to her. The girl from above also very good looking and knew it. Girls like that are always going to have guys they can choose from especially on something like myspace so its important while you are being yourself and showing her what makes you great that you not become to easy and make her work for you as well.

My biggest error was being too available for chats, email, phone etc at the beginning.

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well, while im taking the time to get to know ms. perfect, here is a real life brag.

so i swim every day at the Y.

the Y is composed of the old, the enfeebled, or the male.

on monday night, i had a very rare timing issue and swam at a time i would normally not be swimming.

midway through my laps a girl joins the 6 lap pool two lanes to my right (there are 6 lanes im in the 3rd from the left so she's in the 5th lane). i cna't tell if she's cute b/c i have goggles on.

so i finish my laps and take off the goggles and look at the clock and turn to see her looking right at me w/ her head above water b/c she is doing the kickboard thingy.

her eyes are AMAZING huge beautiful things and fit perfectly in her cute face. we kinda lock glances for a sec and she turns away.

nice i think. so then the folks to my left move and i fully expect her to come take an empty lane (she was sharing hers) to my left.

she does not.

i gotta get home so im like, [censored], i gotta go. i get out and shower/change and leave and as im walking out i see her through the glass again looking right at me so i kinda smile and she smiles back and i leave.

i get ALL the way back to my car and say "barron you f*cking jackass, get your stupid ass back in there and get her number now you dumb dumb f*ck."

so i listen, grab a pen and paper and stuff it in my cargo shorts pocket.

i walk back and time it so she is again facing the glass when i walk in and walk up to the glass, smile at her, and signal in mouth+ hand motions "would you like to come out and talk w/ me for 2 minutes"

she nods and puts an obliging finger in the air (the index for those curious) to intimate she'll be a minute.

so i sit and chill w/ my green tea as she finishes up (3 mins).

i then see she's out and i go to meet her.

i say "hey, im sorry but i got all the way back to my car and knew i just had to introduce myself. Im Barron."

her face LIT UP and she was immediately like "oh HI, im [lets say Mary]"

we proceeded to chat for a short bit (3 mins maybe) and since she's in a swim suit w/ a towel i segue to close and say "Mary, i dont know you're schedule but if you're not busy later this week i'd love to take you to dinner."

now her face is truely bright and she appears shocked and pleased and says, "REALLY!??! id love that!, here let me give you my #"

me (to self): GOTCHA B*TCH!! [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

so i take her # and we schedule a date for this thursday.

she is 4'11, petite (obv), w/ the MOST AMAZING eyes ive ever seen on a girl. they must comprise such a large relative % of her face and they look sooo cute on her. doughy is the best adjective i can think of. they are brownish greenish-ish...maybe they change color too [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

EDIT: further, she is only swimming b/c she TOO hurt herself running (like me) and was training for a marathon. she is getting her masters in education and works w/ old people (helping them).

anyways, so until ms. right comes to her senses, i'll have a lovely date w/ ms. right-now on thursday.

TY LIFE AND LUCK.

Barron

[TimM]

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if im wrong and she's fake i've invested some time.

if im right and she's real and we click in person as well then im set.

even if it were 99:1 against the latter id put in that effort every time.

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This is fine, but my point is that SHE should also want to know quickly. If she's rational, she has no reason to fear someone she met through myspace any more than she has reason to fear someone she met any other way.

It's pretty easy to set up a safe, short, no pressure meeting in a coffee shop or bar. Just agree that the date lasts as long as one drink, you both go home separately no matter what happens. And only then do you each reveal if you want to hang out again.

[delta k]

Barron I'm not going to quote your entire post but nice work...playa! wish i had stones like that, makes life more interesting, no?

[miajag]

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me (to self): GOTCHA B*TCH!! [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]


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awesome

[DcifrThs]

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Barron I'm not going to quote your entire post but nice work...playa! wish i had stones like that, makes life more interesting, no?

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i got over the fear of rejection after my one love so far crushed me. since then i have no qualms going up to anybody, (almost) no matter how cute/ intimidating and spark up a conversation.

ive met girlfriends/dates on planes, trains, metros and buses. it's fun.

Barron

[DcifrThs]

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if im wrong and she's fake i've invested some time.

if im right and she's real and we click in person as well then im set.

even if it were 99:1 against the latter id put in that effort every time.

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This is fine, but my point is that SHE should also want to know quickly. If she's rational , she has no reason to fear someone she met through myspace any more than she has reason to fear someone she met any other way.

It's pretty easy to set up a safe, short, no pressure meeting in a coffee shop or bar. Just agree that the date lasts as long as one drink, you both go home separately no matter what happens. And only then do you each reveal if you want to hang out again.

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LOL @ your HUGE HUGE IF.

not to mention the inherent oxymoron. SHE cannot be RATIONAL simply b/c it is indeed a SHE [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Barron

[Vehn]

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It's pretty easy to set up a safe, short, no pressure meeting in a coffee shop or bar. Just agree that the date lasts as long as one drink, you both go home separately no matter what happens. And only then do you each reveal if you want to hang out again.

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ugh don't say that just make up something that you need to do an hour after you're gonna meet and tell her that before you go so she's comfortable.

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Barron,

I'm sorry that I have to be the guy to rain on the parade instead of pumping you up like everyone else, but the posts you have made sound very desperate. I'm not saying you are in any way, but they have a tone just by the way you describe things.

If I can pick that out of some text, a woman is going to smell it a mile away, as I believe girl #1 has. Maybe you're just really a romantic, but it seems you fall way too damn easily.

Best of luck.

[asdf11]

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Barron,

I'm sorry that I have to be the guy to rain on the parade instead of pumping you up like everyone else, but the posts you have made sound very desperate. I'm not saying you are in any way, but they have a tone just by the way you describe things.

If I can pick that out of some text, a woman is going to smell it a mile away, as I believe girl #1 has. Maybe you're just really a romantic, but it seems you fall way too damn easily.

Best of luck.

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I was waiting for someone to say it.

[fslexcduck]

guys i don't mean to beat this dead horse, but i'm going out to this party in like 20 minutes and need some male opinions on this one. i told the situation to my friend (latest correspondence included) and he said she is DEFINITELY hinting towards a threesome, which i had not even considered. thoughts?


yeah my friend just made me promise that i would come w/ her, so i'll see you there! maybe you won't have had 2 whole shots yet and i might get to see you sober for a second!

- v



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: chloe
Date: Aug 15, 2006 12:48 PM

lol...sure i got pics waht's your email addy?

as my new friend you should def come...no *might* plus i thought ur a risk taker so screw sleep .lol...

c ya



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: vanessa
Date: Aug 15, 2006 8:07 AM

haha, trying to pass me off to your friends already? all right all right, that's cool. i don't know if i'll be at snapshot tonight as i haven't slept in a year or so, but my friends might be dragging me along. so I *might* see you guys there.

hey do you have those pics you took that night? i could use a good one for myspace, actually.

talk to you soon
v




----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: chloe
Date: Aug 15, 2006 9:05 AM

hey girl,

wow sleeping...whoa it's 9 am i gotta jet off to the gym...tonight is the big parttyyy [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] im so ecxited.

anyways, thx for helping me start off my 21st year in the right foot lol...

btw did you think my friend chaya was cute, she'll be at the party tonight so if you stop by, you should ask her to dance.

okay kiddo,
have a great one!



----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: vanessa
Date: Aug 14, 2006 10:45 PM

hope your day went better than mine. i basically just slept.

if you're into it, i have a uhaul all picked out for the next time we see each other, whenever that may be.

or, we could just [censored].

- v