Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[Alexisonfyre]

Doc... Go to the mall with her, and make your last move. If this doesn't work, show her this thread, she won't ever talk to you again but that's what OOT wants right?

[Doc7]

this has officially become the 5th longest existing thread in OOT and I haven't made any progress since page 4. apologies to all and i will definitely let you know what happens this weekend

[Doc7]

OK HERE IS AN EXAMPLE, FOLKS:

My away message is the following, from another thread here that I saw a day ago or so:
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A girl walks up to a guy at a bar and asks for a double entendre. So he gives it to her.

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she's talking to me on AIM right nowand then says the following:

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g: did you make up that joke
g: i had a very single entendre dream last nmight
me: oh?
g: yeah i dunno if i should tell you
me: um ok
g: lol you were in it
me: ...
g:and i was in it
me: was it good


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EDIT REPLY: "lol it was short ahahahahaha"
me: short but sweet
g: no comment
g: for you maybe
g: i was pissed off
g: lol ther was another weird part
m: oh?
m: hurry up i gotta go to lab in 5
g: it involved you turning into an animal lol

[Los Feliz Slim]

All,

My problem with this whole scenario is this: OP is obviously enjoying this, at least on some level. When I went through my "being abused by cruel women" years I was beyond tortured by it. I couldn't even think about it with myself, let alone discuss it jokingly like this.

There are a number of possible explanations for this. This could all be BS, which I really doubt. Or, OP's self-esteem is so unbelievably low that he's happy for ANY amount of attention, even awful attention, which is why he's enjoying this thread so much. Or, the situation isn't really as bleak as he's made it out to be.

In any case, the lack of emotional maturity is just astounding.

[El Diablo]

Sha,

Artistic license. Luckily for me, I never (to my knowledge) had a chick I was wooing f more than one guy while I was elaborately planning my next date.

[Shajen]

El D. Thank God. I would have hated to follow you around posting this pic over and over and over and over again...

[Doc7]

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All,

My problem with this whole scenario is this: OP is obviously enjoying this, at least on some level. When I went through my "being abused by cruel women" years I was beyond tortured by it. I couldn't even think about it with myself, let alone discuss it jokingly like this.

There are a number of possible explanations for this. This could all be BS, which I really doubt. Or, OP's self-esteem is so unbelievably low that he's happy for ANY amount of attention, even awful attention, which is why he's enjoying this thread so much. Or, the situation isn't really as bleak as he's made it out to be.

In any case, the lack of emotional maturity is just astounding.

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I don't see where I made jokes about this situation. Unless you mean in the conversation which I had with her, which encompasses the entire point of this thread in the first place...

In your "being abused by cruel women" years, you did not make jokes to the women in question? I doubt it would have lasted 'years' if you did not maintain some semblance of normalcy and a sense of humor, etc with the women who were torturing you. if you were just sad and/or a dick to them, they probably would have let you be.

[TimM]

This thread, that you said you wanted to let die, goes almost 12 hours without a post, and then you bump it.

[Jakesta]

Doc,

Here is the best advice you will receive about the situation:

STOP HANGING OUT WITH THE MANIPULATIVE PAXIL FREAK.

Is it that hard to understand? Don't return her phone calls, insult her if you run into her in public, etc. She is a bitch and is using you emotionally. Make her feel like s*it.

OR:

F*** her, kick her in the face, and then dump her. Cause thas how we roll.

[shant]

I agree. No matter how into some chick I was if she teased me along with little lol's before sentences that weren't even funny and never give me action, I'd eventually give up.

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