On not contacting Girls...

[RayPowers]

The obvious question:

Is she wearing said new panties out to meet this guy?

Ray

[Bluffoon]

This is crap anyway you slice it. Ok say its innocent. (lol right but whatever) It's still insensitive as hell. Her not realizing or not caring about how a gift like this from another guy would make you feel is a big red flag.

[britspin]

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brit,

I think it was considerate of the guy to buy her new underwear that he can keep so you won't have to see her panties in the hamper at your place after she's banged this dude.

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LOL. OK guys. If you think she's seriously likely to get tapped and thus make me totally paranoid, please at least give me some strategies for tomorrow.

[Bluffoon]

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brit,

I think it was considerate of the guy to buy her new underwear that he can keep so you won't have to see her panties in the hamper at your place after she's banged this dude.

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LOL. OK guys. If you think she's seriously likely to get tapped and thus make me totally paranoid, please at least give me some strategies for tomorrow.

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Dump her. There is no redeeming this. She is a girl who will let other guys buy them underwear and she likes to rub it in her boyfriend's nose too.

[slickpoppa]

Why can't he buy her a sweater? Take umbrage man. Don't do anything tonight, but tomorrow let her know that you don't feel comfortable with another guy buying her sexy underwear. If she thinks that is an unreasonable request, then she is a ho-bag.

[illeagle]

"Here's a pretty present, some sexy panties to wrap your beautiful ass and vagina in."

The guy is seriously disrespecting you with this move. Your girl thinks you're a puss for letting this slide. Don't be a nice guy here.

[keikiwai]

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brit,

I think it was considerate of the guy to buy her new underwear that he can keep so you won't have to see her panties in the hamper at your place after she's banged this dude.

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LOL. OK guys. If you think she's seriously likely to get tapped and thus make me totally paranoid, please at least give me some strategies for tomorrow.

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Watch Baby Boy then do the smell test on her...

...although in the movie it's her doing it on him.

Honestly tough situation, and it's probably not too late to tell her you're uncomfortable even though you thought /said you weren't. Ask her what she would do in your situation. That should get her to think about the spot she's putting you in.

[Dids]

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brit,

I think it was considerate of the guy to buy her new underwear that he can keep so you won't have to see her panties in the hamper at your place after she's banged this dude.

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LOL. OK guys. If you think she's seriously likely to get tapped and thus make me totally paranoid, please at least give me some strategies for tomorrow.

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Talk to her, explain why you are uncomfortable. If she doesn't understand, regardless of what happened last night, she's got a [censored] up point of view and you need to consider if you can deal with that.

[BWebb]

How long has this chick been your girlfriend?

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They all met on an internet forum

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Also, I wouldn't trust anyone who frequents an internet forum.

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How long has this chick been your girlfriend?

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They all met on an internet forum

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Also, I wouldn't trust anyone who frequents an internet forum.

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lol. About three months.

previous exciting background? We got together after she spilit up with her husband after she discovered he'd been unfaithful. She's quite aware fo how much infidelity hurts. It was in the intervening period that she had a one night stand with this guy.

We started out as [censored] buddies, and moved on to a "proper" relationship in the new year.

Oh, and my last girlfriend was her sister. So, there's quite a lot for us both to get wierded out about. I'm trying to be mature and adult, but this does bother me a little.