More Dating Advice - What's My Play

[TomCollins]

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I play for the long term. I'm not gonna try to buy the girl, she's too smart to see through that [censored] (again, if she's not, good riddance). But her chances of maintaining the lifestyle she is used to is much higher with me.

As long as she knows I am perfectly willing to take care of her when the time comes, I am not worried about this. Plus, I got her a more thoughtful gift for Christmas without appearing over the top.

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Too smart not to see through it? I think you're missing the point. And why the hell are you buying Xmas gifts for non-exclusive girls?

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She loves to read, and I was in the store and saw a book she mentioned she had never read but wanted to, and splurged the $10 for it. Questionable play, but it worked in the end.

[TomCollins]

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ugh, this girl just sounds like someone you dont want to even bother with. Honestly she doesnt even sound that interested in you, and is stringing you along the same way she is this other guy. Shes not looking for a relationship, and regardless of what you've told her, it sounds like you are. I very much doubt you find anthing rewarding or fulfilling here, move on.

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I find it very funny that everyone here can make such impressive judgements of someone with knowing so little of the story. It's amazing any of you find anyone. Let me decide if the girl is worthwhile. I'm not proposing any time soon. Stick to the question at hand.

[Monty_Brogan]

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She loves to read, and I was in the store and saw a book she mentioned she had never read but wanted to, and splurged the $10 for it. Questionable play, but it worked in the end.

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Worked by allowing you to be one of her many MySpace [censored]? Wow. You're a shrewd one.

[ScottyP431]

OP,

"I find it very funny that everyone here can make such impressive judgements of someone with knowing so little of the story."

Then why the hell are you asking for advice from these pople? Jesus, to read your descriptions of things I'm shocked to know you aren't big ballin with the likes of Heidi Klum or something. If you wanted a bunch of people to suck your kac and tell you what you wanted to hear you shouldn't of posted on OOT.

[Alobar]

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Stick to the question at hand.

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whats the actual question? how to get this girl?

Honestly I dont think you have a chance, shes stringing you and tool boy along, and thats the way it will stay until she finds someone shes more interested in, and then she stops returning your calls

[Blarg]

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ugh, this girl just sounds like someone you dont want to even bother with. Honestly she doesnt even sound that interested in you, and is stringing you along the same way she is this other guy. Shes not looking for a relationship, and regardless of what you've told her, it sounds like you are. I very much doubt you find anthing rewarding or fulfilling here, move on.

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I find it very funny that everyone here can make such impressive judgements of someone with knowing so little of the story. It's amazing any of you find anyone. Let me decide if the girl is worthwhile. I'm not proposing any time soon. Stick to the question at hand.

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Sounds like you aren't hearing what you wanted to hear.

[TomCollins]

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Stick to the question at hand.

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whats the actual question? how to get this girl?

Honestly I dont think you have a chance, shes stringing you and tool boy along, and thats the way it will stay until she finds someone shes more interested in, and then she stops returning your calls

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How to instigate a jealous rage from numbuts.

[TomCollins]

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ugh, this girl just sounds like someone you dont want to even bother with. Honestly she doesnt even sound that interested in you, and is stringing you along the same way she is this other guy. Shes not looking for a relationship, and regardless of what you've told her, it sounds like you are. I very much doubt you find anthing rewarding or fulfilling here, move on.

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I find it very funny that everyone here can make such impressive judgements of someone with knowing so little of the story. It's amazing any of you find anyone. Let me decide if the girl is worthwhile. I'm not proposing any time soon. Stick to the question at hand.

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Sounds like you aren't hearing what you wanted to hear.

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Bingo. I don't need OOT to tell me what I want in a girl. It's alright though, there is usually a lot of noise and a few decent responses.

[slickpoppa]

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Stick to the question at hand.

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whats the actual question? how to get this girl?

Honestly I dont think you have a chance, shes stringing you and tool boy along, and thats the way it will stay until she finds someone shes more interested in, and then she stops returning your calls

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How to instigate a jealous rage from numbuts.

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You want him to get jealous of the fact that she has met up with you a couple of times and told you that she doesn't want anything exclusive? What do you need our help for, that should easily drive any sane man into a jealous rage.

Seriously, listen to what you are saying. Don't lower yourself to that level. If this girl is incapable of recognizing that this guy is a tool and getting rid of her by herself, you don't want to have anything to do with her. If she doesn't get rid of the tool and you are still interested in her, then there is something wrong with you.

You barely even know this girl and you are already jealous of some guy who she doesn't even appear to be interested in. That is not a healthy way to start a relationship.

[B00T]

It seems there were a few very decent responses and basically covered all sides of the situation. What type of response here would of satisfied you?