Infidelity

[garcia1000]

http://www.psych.ucsb.edu/research/c...ct%20facts.pdf

Oh, it's only 100x for babies! I got my figures wrong, so you can sleep easy

[BEP]

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But when you build 14 years together

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Are you sure you get to count the two years she was sleeping with her boss as part of the time that you "built" together? From how you describe your relationship it was about 6 years of "building" something... then you got married... and then it was on auto-pilot. And you yourself have said that what you two had together wasn't that strong (but hey, we have kids so we'll live happily ever after).

[LetItBe]

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But when you build 14 years together

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Are you sure you get to count the two years she was sleeping with her boss as part of the time that you "built" together? From how you describe your relationship it was about 6 years of "building" something... then you got married... and then it was on auto-pilot. And you yourself have said that what you two had together wasn't that strong (but hey, we have kids so we'll live happily ever after).

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Don't forget the lack of debt, because that apparently is so important.

[slim]

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http://www.psych.ucsb.edu/research/c...ct%20facts.pdf

Oh, it's only 100x for babies! I got my figures wrong, so you can sleep easy

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120 times....good article

[slim]

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But when you build 14 years together

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Are you sure you get to count the two years she was sleeping with her boss as part of the time that you "built" together? From how you describe your relationship it was about 6 years of "building" something... then you got married... and then it was on auto-pilot. And you yourself have said that what you two had together wasn't that strong (but hey, we have kids so we'll live happily ever after).

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Don't forget the lack of debt, because that apparently is so important.

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It is to her. She has ALWAYS stressed paying off the house ASAP. We did it by our early 30's. Now apparently, she doesn't seem to care as much.

[slim]

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But when you build 14 years together

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Are you sure you get to count the two years she was sleeping with her boss as part of the time that you "built" together? From how you describe your relationship it was about 6 years of "building" something... then you got married... and then it was on auto-pilot. And you yourself have said that what you two had together wasn't that strong (but hey, we have kids so we'll live happily ever after).

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building a relationship is not just about romance and having fun together. So even though we lived on autopilot for a number of years, we still went through anumber of things together like graduation,new jobs, promotions, deaths in the family,losing jobs, preganancy, raising kids etc. I would argue that getting throught the difficult times builds the relationship more than the good times. Being there for each other in times of stress is more helpful in a relationship than having fun. But apparently, whatever I/we did wasn't enough.

[KotOD]

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I would argue that getting throught the difficult times builds the relationship more than the good times. Being there for each other in times of stress is more helpful in a relationship than having fun.

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Should you really be the one making that argument?

[bisonbison]

. I would argue that getting throught the difficult times builds the relationship more than the good times.

If you haven't given her the bill she won't know how long to stay.

[slim]

I guess making infidelity a crime is not that far a stretch

http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/reuters/0...dultery_odd_dc

[bisonbison]

I guess making infidelity a crime is not that far a stretch

It's a bill, not a law. Slow your roll, OJ.