On not contacting Girls...

[Yobz]

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What are your hobbies?

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The usual... porn, masturbation, philosphy, international politics.

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Same here, but I can never get past the first two.

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Whoah, buying your girl underwear is way way over the line man. It's not even [censored] close.

That being said, contacting her would be a mistake tonight but wow, that is definently not cool.

[KKbluff]

Like DIDS pointed out earlier, What kind a douchbag buys another mans girlfriend sexy underwear?

What did she have to say about her gift?

[britspin]

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I would be SO not cool with a dude buying underwear for my girl. Who cares what she likes, that guy is sending a message with that gift and that message is "I want to [censored] your girl" I think you're correct in feeling edgy.

If you know contacting her won't do any good, then don't do it, but I dunno, I think this raises some BIG red flags, especially if she's not weirded out by his gift.

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Yeah- Well I think he want's to [censored] her and to be honest he sounds like a total sleaze- but he's her friend and I see no benefit in complaining. I am wierded out by the underwear but what good would it do whining about it?

On the plus side, she's been honest with me, and no way do i want to make her feel bad about going out with her friends.

[Dids]

britspin,

You're positive she's being honest with you? Like I said, my biggest issue would simply be that I feel like SHE should be freaked out by the gift. Does she at least understand why it would bother you?

[britspin]

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Like DIDS pointed out earlier, What kind a douchbag buys another mans girlfriend sexy underwear?

What did she have to say about her gift?

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When she told me about it I was insouicant due to alcohol, and later she told impressed she was that I was cool about it as a lot of people would be threatened.

At which point I found it hard to say "dammit, I was just drunk before and now I'm sober i'm threatened!"

[BWebb]

Question, why weren't you invited to go out tonight?

[El Diablo]

brit,

I think it was considerate of the guy to buy her new underwear that he can keep so you won't have to see her panties in the hamper at your place after she's banged this dude.

[britspin]

Wasn't invited out tonight as it's a group of friends who have a semi regular night out together. They all met on an internet forum and get together every few months. I'm not invited because it's their gang... wouldnt wnat to be invited really- it's her thing.

As for honesty, well, I kind of think if there was more to it, she'd be smarter not telling me, no? As he lives in another city, the only thing she could be dishonest about is what happens tonight- which is why I'm edgy.

[Gugel]

the key to lying (and not getting caught) is to stay as close to the truth as possible.