More Dating Advice - What's My Play - Page 2

slickpoppa · #11 01-09-2006, 02:39 PM

Wasn't [censored] in the army?

Blarg · #12 01-09-2006, 02:41 PM

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She has told him not to buy anything else for her again.

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My cynicism doesn't allow me to put much stock in this

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And if it gets into a spending contest, there is no doubt who will win. The army grunt or the guy who makes >5x as much?

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You would actually want to win this contest?

Something tells me you may get your chance to try.

I've been "invited" to participate in similar contests too. Right away I knew I didn't want to win.

2Fast · #13 01-09-2006, 02:49 PM

ditto - this girl's a ho and you know it bro

elus2 · #14 01-09-2006, 02:54 PM

if you're ok with having a non-exclusive relationship with this girl then why does the fact that she's dating a chump matter? enjoy her company when you both feel like meeting up but otherwise go do your own thing.

TomCollins · #15 01-09-2006, 02:54 PM

I play for the long term. I'm not gonna try to buy the girl, she's too smart to see through that [censored] (again, if she's not, good riddance). But her chances of maintaining the lifestyle she is used to is much higher with me.

As long as she knows I am perfectly willing to take care of her when the time comes, I am not worried about this. Plus, I got her a more thoughtful gift for Christmas without appearing over the top.

TomCollins · #16 01-09-2006, 02:55 PM

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if you're ok with having a non-exclusive relationship with this girl then why does the fact that she's dating a chump matter? enjoy her company when you both feel like meeting up but otherwise go do your own thing.

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Good point. I'm not that concerned. I do see it as potentially detrimental down the road.

Monty_Brogan · #17 01-09-2006, 03:09 PM

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I play for the long term. I'm not gonna try to buy the girl, she's too smart to see through that [censored] (again, if she's not, good riddance). But her chances of maintaining the lifestyle she is used to is much higher with me.

As long as she knows I am perfectly willing to take care of her when the time comes, I am not worried about this. Plus, I got her a more thoughtful gift for Christmas without appearing over the top.

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Too smart not to see through it? I think you're missing the point. And why the hell are you buying Xmas gifts for non-exclusive girls?

Alobar · #18 01-09-2006, 03:12 PM

ugh, this girl just sounds like someone you dont want to even bother with. Honestly she doesnt even sound that interested in you, and is stringing you along the same way she is this other guy. Shes not looking for a relationship, and regardless of what you've told her, it sounds like you are. I very much doubt you find anthing rewarding or fulfilling here, move on.

2Fast · #19 01-09-2006, 03:13 PM

yeah, why are you buying her gifts? And what's the endgame here - marriage? She sure don't sound like a one-woman man.....in my experience, player chicks don't are like leopards - they don't change their spots and marriage or a "monogamous" relationship ain't gonna change that one iota

If you ask me, her poor choice in this other guy reflects poorly on her and on you too - there are plenty of fish in the sea so don't think this has to be the one

Bluffoon · #20 01-09-2006, 03:15 PM

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ugh, this girl just sounds like someone you dont want to even bother with. Honestly she doesnt even sound that interested in you, and is stringing you along the same way she is this other guy. Shes not looking for a relationship, and regardless of what you've told her, it sounds like you are. I very much doubt you find anthing rewarding or fulfilling here, move on.

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Very well said. When I am dating I find a lot of girls that are cute, smart, funny etc etc and I really start to like them and then I run into something like this and I am disappointed because they have a lot of good qualities but it doesn't matter.