An Awesome Girl Question! (sex problem)

[Milo]

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I think the whole precum thing is overblown unless you're trigger happy, which is unlikely at 22.


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This is so very wrong.

[Phil153]

I may be wrong. But I think it's a fairly long shot to get pregnant anyway even with a full load, all in way in, and her orgasming when she's out of ovulation. Just poking around seems fairly harmless to me if you have any control at all. Out of ovulation I'd hazard to say it's safer than the pill.

[skunkworks]

With precum, you never know. Sometimes there's no sperm, sometimes there's as much as there would be in normal ejaculate. If I were OP, I wouldn't hazard to guess when I'm lethal or when I'm shooting blanks.

[Milo]

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I may be wrong. But I think it's a fairly long shot to get pregnant anyway even with a full load, all in way in, and her orgasming when she's out of ovulation. Just poking around seems fairly harmless to me if you have any control at all. Out of ovulation I'd hazard to say it's safer than the pill.

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Ovulation is notoriously elusive for most women, and sperm kive quite a while once deposited.

You suck at giving sex advice.

[Grue]

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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[kosmicd21]

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POTY

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You are basically a virgin, so it is likely you suck at sex. It could be just as likely that your penis is actually too small, depending whether she was judging 'all the way in' from an outside view or what she could feel inside.

What has your height got to do with anything? 5'7 isn't short, and 6'7 doesn't mean your penis is large.

[/ QUOTE ]I measured it in high school and it was 7.5" then (4-5 yrs ago) I'm 22 now, so it possibly grew since then. I don't know much about penises either, but I just assumed they were somewhat proportional to your bodies....(I don't really know anything about anything).

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this is an amazing post.

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[miami32]

Okay so I don't really venture to far out of the other forums, but this is such a great thread I had too...

So try working up to sticking it in. Most women, correction, all women can't just automatically stick a penis in them with out being turned on. It just won't be comfortable for them. So if you are so content on having sex, try foreplay. It helps, and it also makes you better at sex and since this your first time, you are going to be terrible. It's okay, no one is any good their first time. But try doing things that lead into sex, instead of say, hey let me stick it in you. BTW, always use a condom, seriously, getting a girl pregnent is no joke. A life killer.

[Phil153]

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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http://www.managingcontraception.com..._10-20-00.html
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the percent of women experiencing an unintended pregnancy within the first year of using withdrawal as a method of birth control is from 4 % (perfect users) to 19 % (typical users).

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These are people who regularly go near ejaculation and withdraw beforehand, a LOT more stimulation, depth and frequency involved than just poking around.

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Some concern exists that the pre-ejaculate fluid may carry sperm into the vagina. In itself, the pre-ejaculate, a lubricating secretion produced by the Littre or Cowper's glands, contains no sperm. A study examining the pre-ejaculate for the presence of spermatozoa found none in the samples of 16 men. The chances of such sperm [occasionally found in precum, left behind from a PREVIOUS ejaculation] causing fertilization must be low, though not negligible." Malcolm Potts and Peter Diggory, Textbook of Contraception

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Now can we stop hating on my sex advice and get back to the OP?

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[NhlNut]

Fingers and oral first.
Get her on the pill.