help me OOT: I like my friend's gf and don't know how to deal with it - Page 2

DrewDevil · #11 06-23-2007, 04:47 PM

Get all three of you together and do a battle rap about how small his dick is.

Anacardo · #12 06-23-2007, 04:59 PM

Shrug, laugh at yourselves, hug it out (no grab at boob, pls) and get on with your life's grand adventures.

Poofler · #13 06-23-2007, 05:21 PM

Hug it out, bitch

GTL · #14 06-23-2007, 05:23 PM

in the future, don't tell the boyfriend things that you don't want the gf to know and vice versa. no reason to go blabbing to them about your feelings. this is a situation where the old school philosophy of keeping it bottled up is correct, imo. go blab to some other people that have no connection to these two.

foobar37 · #15 06-23-2007, 05:24 PM

Blarg,

I'm definitely learning a bunch of life lessons from this experience, and I freely admit that I acted very immaturely. The guy is a little pissed at me right now, and I agree it's completely justified. In the following situation though, what was I supposed to do?

A group of us were staying at a hotel, and the two of them had a huge fight, audible in my room. The guy left, and the girl came into my room crying (my roommate was gone). Was I supposed to turn her away? The other situations where she revealed things to me were similar; they fought more or less in front of me, then I was stuck alone with the girl.

Still though, there were many other aspects of this whole situation where I had a choice and made a bad one, so I would place the blame at like 90% me, 10% her, 0% him.

Mr. P,

Meh, I don't really blame him for telling her. This situation is probably hardest on him, and he did nothing to deserve it, so I'm willing to cut him some slack. Also, I'm at least ethical enough that I won't pursue her in any way while she is still with my friend.

GTL · #16 06-23-2007, 05:27 PM

yeah, but if she comes in upset and then tries to go down on you, you're not passing that up. i mean, come on.

knowledgeORbust · #17 06-23-2007, 05:33 PM

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go blab to some other people that have no connection to these two.

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There are all kinds of reasons to blab personal stuff like this, with or without sexual intent. This is not the last time you will see it. Deal with it better next time.

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Basically, you need to come to OOT earlier next time and let us handle it.

knowledgeORbust · #18 06-23-2007, 05:40 PM

Seriously, having the hots for your friend's GF is fine. My two best friends' girlfriends turn me on (my friends are extremely similar in personality type so, wtf, it's gonna happen.)

Just don't act on it, be very careful when drunk (preptalk yourself ftw), and, for god's sake, DON'T TELL ANYONE ABOUT IT.

tarheeljks · #19 06-23-2007, 05:41 PM

regarding these sorts of things i would say keep your mouth shut and suffer w/o complaint.

Blarg · #20 06-23-2007, 05:51 PM

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Just don't act on it, be very careful when drunk (preptalk yourself ftw), and, for god's sake, DON'T TELL ANYONE ABOUT IT.

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I'm picturing Travolta in front of the mirror in Pulp Fiction here, saying something kind of like ... "You're not gonna do anything, you're just gonna have a little drink, talk a little, say goodnight, then go home, jerk off, and go to bed."