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10-05-2006, 08:45 PM
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Re: Confusing situation involving a pregnant friend
I would stay out of it other than to be sympathetic.
When I was your age I would have tried to stay out of it, but probably would have ended up giving her advice. 
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10-05-2006, 08:56 PM
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Re: Confusing situation involving a pregnant friend
Just leave it the F alone. Regardless of what direction you push her, in the end you may be wrong. Allow her to make her own decisions in her own time. You don't want blamed if she does have an abortion and then has years of regret (which is a very real possibility).
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#13
10-05-2006, 09:22 PM
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Re: Confusing situation involving a pregnant friend
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not to be racist, but allow me to be racist for just a minute here... [/ QUOTE ] fyp Unfortunately I can't offer any real advice to OP because my experiences have left me slightly bitter and vindictive towards a couple of exes, and he sounds like he doesn't want to go that direction
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#14
10-05-2006, 09:23 PM
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Re: Confusing situation involving a pregnant friend
If you're up for it, offer to accompany her to a clinic or doctors office if she wants someone with her. Don't suggest she get an abortion, she has to come to that decision herself.
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#15
10-05-2006, 10:00 PM
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Re: Confusing situation involving a pregnant friend
You've already stated your opinion, but I'd leave that be for now. While I agree that abortion is probably the best decision, it has to be her choice and her choice alone. Support her either way, but if she gets an abortion she might harbor resentment towards you later on down the road.
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#16
10-05-2006, 10:05 PM
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If you're up for it, offer to accompany her to a clinic or doctors office if she wants someone with her. Don't suggest she get an abortion, she has to come to that decision herself. [/ QUOTE ] good option.
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#17
10-05-2006, 10:07 PM
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*deleted* [/ QUOTE ] omg what a racist
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#20
10-05-2006, 10:22 PM
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If you're up for it, offer to accompany her to a clinic or doctors office if she wants someone with her. Don't suggest she get an abortion, she has to come to that decision herself. [/ QUOTE ] I would totally be up for taking her to the clinic, even if it's just an informational visit. She shouldn't have to go there alone.
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