Would you be ok with your gf going skinny dipping with guys?

[kurosh]

Or I just have a close trusting relationship with her?

[wacki]

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Im sorry, but you are in denial.

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I think you might be wrong on this. She's being very honest with him. It's a gray area though. She may have the best intentions but simply not realize what kind of problems her actions will cause.

This is a very gray area though.

[morgant]

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Or I just have a close trusting relationship with her?

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then why make this post?

[kurosh]

Let me reiterate. I am not concerned about her cheating on me. I just don't want other guys to see her wet and naked. She doesn't seem to understand that concept either. She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

[morgant]

we need to see nude pictures to help you prove your point

[ChoicestHops]

What does someone have to gain by going swimming naked with the opposite sex? Friends of the opposite sex can possible do this for fun or whatever, but can you honestly say that if you (a guy) go skinny dipping with a girl you have no desire whatsoever to hook up with her? What else is there to gain, besides obviously seeing a naked girl? Whether she may admit it or not, deep down she may have hidden intentions.

She may say she will simply "go along with it." But what does she stand to gain by doing so?

[Anacardo]

I don't think you can, really; not reasonably, anyway.
If you two have the kind of relationship that you describe, then strutting around nude ("n00d," if you like) in front of her friends really isn't something you can try and legislate.

I, of course, would never be this trusting, but then I'm 23 in September and STILL always [censored] up a good thing over and over, so what do I know?

[bernie]

I take it

a) You're not going to be there
b) You don't really know these people she's going with

Would she like it if you went skinny dipping with a bunch of chicks(attractive that she doesn't know) without her? Yeah, right.

I wouldn't put her in that situation, so I wouldn't expect to be put in that situation.

This isn't a gray area for me.

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I would NOT be ok with other guys seeing her wet and naked and that's pretty much the only thing that would bother me.

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Then she should respect your wishes as you g/f and not go. If she pushes it, she really doesn't give a rip about you. Look at what she is balancing here. Skinnydipping v. keeping her b/f. Pretty simple.

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[kurosh]

I can tell you for sure she wouldn't care if I did it. Again, we do trust each other a lot so she wouldn't be worried about me doing anything and who cares if they see my dick? It's not like girls are big pervs who want to see guy's dicks.

[Evan]

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we need to see nude pictures to help you prove your point

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