Female on Paxil, Things have changed - Page 18

SoloAJ · #**171** 03-18-2006, 02:40 PM

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If she goes and bangs another guy tomorrow, it will bother you just as much if you haven't banged her as it will if you do bang her.

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I think a bright light just flashed in front of me.

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Doc, theres been flashing bright lights throughout this whole ordeal

People ARE telling you this stuff from their own experience and trying to save you the trouble. The poster you quoted is dead on. You're going to get eaten up inside either way if she sleeps with another guy. Sleep with her, and don't act like it means the world to you becuase it might not mean much to her.

On a serious note, assuming the snuggle/boner thing is in relation to this girl, I don't see how you can possibly sleep with this girl if you're not comfortable enough to let her feel an erection on her backside...

Because of this, I think maybe we, the advisors, have expected far too much of you. But you should try to listen to the great advice others before me have put forth and get this ordeal over with one way or the other...You'll feel a huge weight off your shoulders.

(PS. I agree she has issues if she let you know about getting passed around....just cruel).

Hopey · #**172** 03-18-2006, 02:45 PM

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If she goes and bangs another guy tomorrow, it will bother you just as much if you haven't banged her as it will if you do bang her.

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I think a bright light just flashed in front of me.

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Good, I'm glad that you're seeing the "light" [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

If you bang her tonight and then she bangs another guy tomorrow, at least you'll have gotten some pleasure before the pain...because you'll be feeling the pain regardless.

And, like I said before, you don't want to spend the rest of your life regretting not banging this girl. You need to experience this, trust me.

Hopey · #**173** 03-18-2006, 02:52 PM

Oh, and another thing that I forgot to mention...you need to meet more girls. The more girls you have on the go, the less that any one in particular will mean to you. Right now you are *way* too fixated on this one girl. If you spread yourself around some more, it'll keep you from getting fixated.

siccjay · #**174** 03-18-2006, 02:54 PM

Hopey is dead on. Meeting more girls will also up your stock with her, but after meeting some more chicks that might not even matter to you anymore.

Blarg · #**175** 03-18-2006, 03:08 PM

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she makes a comment about the dugout the next day, and i said something about it being her move, she says "WHAT! I have to initiaite things!" i said "um don't you remember the whole thing about your ex boyfriend and 'i need more time, let me make the next move if we go that direction'". i told her that things would have been much more interesting if she hadn't said that. she says "oh so you were scheming anyway!" and i didn't say anything for a few seconds and she says: "ok i schemed to....I was thinking about seeing what you would do if i told you you had to man up and [screw me] right then and there"

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Ugh what misery.

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at my obvious disappointment in these events occuring, she says:
"nice guys dont finish last, you're like someone i could marry, but im 20 years old and youre right, sometimes assholes are more fun in terms of those things at this age but id never want to marry any of them"

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This thread makes me want to kill myself.

This chick is so bad for you.

Hopey · #**176** 03-18-2006, 03:11 PM

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This chick is so bad for you.

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Yeah, she's bad news. But he's come too far not to bang her now.

Doc7 · #**177** 03-18-2006, 03:15 PM

So....I'm pretty sure the girl very convinced that I have emotional strings attached with having sex with her. Is there a way (besides getting her completely and utterly blasted like may happen tonight anyway) to ease this concern?

siccjay · #**178** 03-18-2006, 03:19 PM

Who cares? I think she would let you hit it anyway. Just keep fooling around with her until it escalates.

I'm telling you. You need to stop letting her know you care so much. EVEN IF YOU DO! Things will change once you start doing this.

Tappy Tibbons · #**179** 03-18-2006, 03:23 PM

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So....I'm pretty sure the girl very convinced that I have emotional strings attached with having sex with her. Is there a way (besides getting her completely and utterly blasted like may happen tonight anyway) to ease this concern?

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What's she's been trying to tell you is that she already has a pussy, and doesn't need another one (aka you).

Be a man and take charge, otherwise accept the fact that you will NEVER sleep with this girl.

Hopey · #**180** 03-18-2006, 03:25 PM

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So....I'm pretty sure the girl very convinced that I have emotional strings attached with having sex with her. Is there a way (besides getting her completely and utterly blasted like may happen tonight anyway) to ease this concern?

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"You know that I'm attracted to you, but I don't want you to think that I'm going to get all weird on you if anything happens physically between us. I promise that this won't happen."

Or words to that effect.

Edit: But I only think that you should say those words if she makes it obvious that she's not banging you because she's worried you'll get clingy and weird. You really need to go with the flow more, and saying a scripted speech is not the way to do this.