Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?

[Benholio]

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Seriously, man, what do you think this dude should do when he's a little buzzed and his ex-gf's hot little sister comes into his room and climbs into bed with him?

What if you find out that after she jumped into bed he said "Hey, you should leave, Burdz really likes you" and then she kissed him? Would he still be a dick?

What if then he said "Hey, we really shouldn't be doing this, Burdz would be really bummed" and then she grabbed his dick? Would he still be a dick?

What if he then said "Burdz is too good a friend, I can't do this" and she then took off her shirt and grabbed his hand and put it between her legs? Would he still be a dick?

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[J_T_P]

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sick man

he slept with both sisters?

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how could you possibly expect him to pass this up? he gave you time to seal the deal and obviuosly you failed.

[B00T]

word Cup, word

[pergesu]

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What is your idea of a "relationship," anyway, just holding hands and making out? What is this, 8th grade? I got news for you, pal, college girls want to get [censored] in a relationship. And BTW having sex with someone is pretty much the defining feature of a relationship anyway.

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An ex of mine once told me that the only difference between a boyfriend and a boy friend is that the boyfriend gets play. She wasn't the best of girlfriends but boy was she great in bed.

[Dids]

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When I dream about girls, I tend to aim a bit higher.

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well let's see a photo of a girl you actually sat next to on a couch and failed to make a move on when given the opportunity, Dids. I'm willing to wager the OP's girl is better looking.

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I can assure you I've not hit on MUCH hotter girls. The other day during my awards ceremony a high 8 walked straight towards me and I trembled in fear. I excel at not hitting on hot girls.

My only point was that for "the girl of his dreams" she's not that cute.

[IggyWH]

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Thanks to anyone posting advice and or funny antecdotes, I appreciate it. It sucked that I didn't do well in making a move (usually it's not a big deal to me but she was so it was 100x harder), and I had asked her out on a date, but she wanted to be among friends first.

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I've heard it many times, but it should be obvious to many by now since they said it on Entourage last week :

"Show me the girl who just wants to be friends, and I'll show you the guy she's [censored]"

Well, you didn't need anyone to show you.

[Burdzthewurd]

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Seriously, man, what do you think this dude should do when he's a little buzzed and his ex-gf's hot little sister comes into his room and climbs into bed with him?

What if you find out that after she jumped into bed he said "Hey, you should leave, Burdz really likes you" and then she kissed him? Would he still be a dick?

What if then he said "Hey, we really shouldn't be doing this, Burdz would be really bummed" and then she grabbed his dick? Would he still be a dick?

What if he then said "Burdz is too good a friend, I can't do this" and she then took off her shirt and grabbed his hand and put it between her legs? Would he still be a dick?

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haha, very nice pic. As disturbing as that is, funny stuff. Keep stuff like that coming, it helps.

El D,

If this helps, I can give somewhat of a timeline from what I remember. We went our seperate ways around 3am. It's a small hallway, so one can hear doors closing/feet moving on floor. I wasn't asleep, but IIRC she went into his room around 3:15 or so. I heard talking. I went to wash my face around 3:45 in the bathroom that is directly in front of most of his room and heard them banging. Her guest room connected to mine, so would have been a pretty stupid move for him to come to her room and throw it in her, since I could easily hear everything. That'd be beyond stupid.

To whoever said I was more out of shape than Dids, from what I see of his gym thread pics, that wouldn't be the case. Good for him for making the great progress he has, I don't see the point in sidetracking here. Sorry, no shirtless pics of me, no one including myself wants to see that, I hope.

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Alobar,

See the post I just made.

I seriously don't think you are being fair to the friend at all.

If they all go to sleep and then he calls her up the next day and makes a move on her, I totally agree that's bigtime dick move.

But the way it sounds like it went down, I think it's really unreasonable to blame the friend unless he took much more active part in making this happen than it sounds like he did from this thread.

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El D is the only sane one here who is giving advice. While the OP might want to reconsider being the friend of such a tool based on the other things he has done, I can't really fault the guy for laying some pipe when it drops into his lap like that.

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No kidding. Paraphrasing Dr. Dom [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] "She's doing all the work to get on your junk. Hit it and quit it and don't feel bad."

[Burdzthewurd]

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Thanks to anyone posting advice and or funny antecdotes, I appreciate it. It sucked that I didn't do well in making a move (usually it's not a big deal to me but she was so it was 100x harder), and I had asked her out on a date, but she wanted to be among friends first.

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I've heard it many times, but it should be obvious to many by now since they said it on Entourage last week :

"Show me the girl who just wants to be friends, and I'll show you the guy she's [censored]"

Well, you didn't need anyone to show you.

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When I meant among friends, I got the impression it was group setting. Guess not.

[Genz]

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Listen if you want to get her back just make her a mix tape.

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And then stand outside her window on the sidewalk holding a boombox over your head playing it.

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This is so awesome. Incredible.

But don't dance!