In all seriousness, what are you looking for in a woman?

[FUJItheFISH]

i want a girl that loves to cook and is really good at it. only with food i like, of course.

[Dominic]

what am I looking for? You would do very nicely, J.

(and I can't believe I'm the only one to say this! [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img])

[gimmetheloot]

For real...I want an 8 plus in looks...

I want a girl who is nearly/as/slightly more intelligent than I am. A bit of humor would be GREAT.
I really dont want a broke girl.
I can handle a ton of different personalities, but the thing i hate more than anything is when I am subjected to listening to ridiculously frivilous(sp?) [censored] all the time.

[Tennenbaum]

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what am I looking for? You would do very nicely, J.

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Hee hee. Oh Dom! [img]/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

[PokerAce]

I just got divorced, and I can tell you what I will be looking for in a good relationship once I'm ready. This is what I would say to a potential serious girlfriend:

First, and most important is HONESTY. Don't lie to me, ever. I don't want a girl that will be [censored] with my head. If you want something, come out and say it. I do something that pisses you off, tell me. Don't make me guess.

A sense of humor. Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself. I want to be comfortable letting go and acting goofy every once in a while.

Self esteem. Don't ask me if this dress makes you look fat or if I think that girl is prettier than you. If I'm with someone, it's because I'm attracted to them. That should be enough.

Independance. Don't cling onto me. Accept that I'm not always going to want to spend time with you. Sometimes I need personal space and want to spend time with myself or other people. Financial independance is a must as well.

Intellegence. I'm not talking 150+ IQ, masters degree or anything like that. I just want someone I can sit down and have deep conversations with and share my opinions with in an educated manner.

Kind heartedness. Saying bad things about other people, especially racially motivated, is a major turnoff to me. I don't want to hear about how big of a bitch your backstabbing friend is or how big of a whore this other chick is.

A healthy sex drive. Guys like to have sex. That will never change. The best relationship I had was where the girl initiated the sex nearly every time. I didn't have to work at it and didn't have to ask or beg to get what I liked. Getting what I like makes me more likely to give you what you want. A perfect body isn't a necessity. I don't need to be with a perfect 10 to be satisfied. As long as you are comfortable and confident in yourself, that's all that's required.

Shared interest. If there isn't many shared interests, the relationship will get boring quick. Of course, this isn't really something that can be forced.

[Dominic]

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what am I looking for? You would do very nicely, J.

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seriously...

kind
affectionate
"gets me"
fiercely loyal
mischevious
goofy
will watch foreign and independent films with me
has a touch of class

[thirddan]

to be honest...i have no idea...

[Vincent]

I want too many qualities, that it's unrealistic.

Tenn, what are your feeling about a prenup?

[Tennenbaum]

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I want too many qualities, that it's unrealistic.

Tenn, what are your feeling about a prenup?

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Prenups are fine. I lived w/ someone for 3 years and I never thought that there should be one shared savings. What I work for is mine what they work for is theirs. HOWEVER, people should share in the finances if say they own a house etc...maybe have one joint account that both people contribute to equally for bills/vacations and such. I dont buy that "i've become accustomed to living a certain way" bull shiz. Except of course if you are Degen's wife and you stay home and raise the family and dont work. If say that fell to [censored], the wife should get something to help her out as she wasnt able to work and save like another woman with her own career.

[MaxPower]

I think most guys will never know what they are looking for. Eventually they will find something though. At that point, whether they make a lucky choice or nor will become very important to them.


So, I guess what I am saying is that I am looking to run good.

Its impossible to know what life will throw at you so you just better get lucky.