why boobs?

[Bluffstar]

Get the BA if you are sure that it will make your life better. Please remember the pain, the risk, the idea that you will have to get a new operation in 10 years also remember that you might have dificulties been taking seriously when you are 30 or 40 - you will always just be the girl with boob-job. A lot of men will mistake you for being a sex-aholic.

Now I would prefer one of 2 options:
-Don't get the BA, a lot of sane men prefer skinny, slim, fir girl to a silicone-woman. Go to the gym, aerobic, run a marathon, do yoga. Men will always prefer really fit natural girl, to the lazy that just take easy solution.
-Now if you are still sure it will enhance your self-esteem, make your life better, make you more attractive and good-looking. Don't do it half-ass, don't go from A to a small C, make it at least D or DD. If you are doing it for looks and self-esteem you are much more attractive and special if you make them big. Still remember to be in shape.

Why men love them? Its a sign of good, healthy DNA, really it is. Its sexy... but yes its quite lame, that how it is. If all women had big, perfect round boobs, a flat a-cup would be the wildest thing. Same as, take a coloured person to the northern of Finland or a white, blonde to Tanzania - opposites attracts.

[BigStick_25]

It sounds to me like it has been bothering you for a long time so I wouldn't even think twice about it. I would have the surgery done start fresh and enjoy your life. If you hear any rude remarks about it just ignore them. And have a little fun with it if all the sudden a guy that wouldnt give you the time of day before becomes interested return the favor by showing no interest in him. I say good luck and hope things go well and you are a happier person after all we only live once.

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[ChristinaB]

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Boob jobs are the Big Christmas gift this year .

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A better Gift:

Planned Parenthood unveils 2004 greeting cards

[Blarg]

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Isn't there still some chance of breast growth at 19 yet? I'd honestly wait a couple of years if you feel that's the course of action.

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My mom told me how skinny she used to be when she was a kid, and how mercilessly she was teased about it.

She always felt kind of doomed to be flat chested. It wasn't until she was about 23 and 24 that her breasts really started to come in, and she wound up actually great breasts -- 38 inches, I think. But she never thought it would happen, and neither did anybody else.

It works that way sometimes. I still grew in tiny amounts until I was almost 30.

If you really feel psychologically at a loss, then surgery wouldn't be the worst thing in the world for you. I'm sure it would have an immensely positive effect on most men you bump into.

A lot of men aren't crazy about the looks of fake breasts, but that's because they are often done to look really fake or the type of technique used leaves some scary scars. By the time you let any guy get his hands or whatever on your fake breasts, I'm sure he'll be either still excited about them or more than willing to "forgive and forget." I doubt more than the tiniest percentage of guys would "stand on principle" and refuse to either screw you or be a boyfriend/husband just because you had a boob job, unless they just really don't like whatever "type" they think you are in the first place. Heck, I predict you might even get stretches of being angry at men who don't know why you're so angry, just because you start to see them start falling all over you just because you got a boob job.

But...you may not be done growing for a while.

And I think when women look at things to improve their looks, they often look at the wrong thing -- make-up, shoes, even boobs. The first two impress women more than men, and don't make an ugly person any prettier. The third can matter, but not be the main problem.

A girl in good shape can wear anything and any guy worth a damn won't care, because she'll still be hot to him. And I've heard women talking about these things laugh and sneer down the value of a good personality too many times to count. I've also read different madams saying the girls who make the most money usually aren't the prettiest -- they have the best personalities and appeal to the guys on more than just the level of meat.

If you can't keep yourself in decent shape, get a good personality and a sense of humor, and make sex and your relationship with your partner a fun part of your life(not a chore, or a bargaining tool to get you your way), you'll always be well behind all the girls who can. Nobody "deserves" a relationship or attention from the opposite sex. A lot of the girls who guys are attracted to, they just want to screw and dump as fast as possible. Who wouldn't?

Anyway, if you want to be a keeper, be someone who takes care of their business on multiple levels, and who you could imagine people would want to be around. If you're a grouch, a whiner, a manipulator, a nag, or a deppressive, your appeal might be increased tremendously with big boobs, but it still won't be lasting, and guys will still outgrow you when they've seen the boobs "X" number of times.

So don't expect boobs to solve all that many problems.

And remember, you're only 19. Most guys your age are jerks, just like they are at any age; but at 19 its guys' time to go wild and be stupid. Some of them won't grow up for a long time, and anyway growing up isn't their biggest priority now, nor is a relationship. Don't feel too bad about being overlooked by guys who don't have their heads screwed on straight yet; that's the norm for this stage of life. The last thing your boobs are going to do is make any guy smarter, kinder, and less jerky. Hell, they might make them even worse. You know how they say that luck = opportunity + preparation? Keep making the best of yourself and you'll find a guy, and like yourself better until you do, and whenever you don't have one. If you don't like yourself or make of yourself someone you could admire, or try to force relationships to happen, it's going to be a much harder and more miserable process.

Enjoy your time to be the person you want to be at this age. There's a lot of freedom to live a hell of a lot of different types of life. Eventually there will be many guys who want to be part of it. Bigger boobs might rush things a little, but maybe not in the right way, and maybe rushing unnaturally isn't the greatest thing. Looking for love in all the wrong places is a heartbreaker. Give the boys time to grow up, grow up and live a little yourself. If you keep making yourself a good person with a good attitude and personality, you'll wind up as something pretty good, and sooner or later somebody will spot it, and who you are and are becoming will probably get you a better guy than you might have ever thought you'd wind up with. With or without big boobs, don't try to "force" anything.

[Your Mom]

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Boob jobs are the Big Christmas gift this year .

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A better Gift:

Planned Parenthood unveils 2004 greeting cards





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Trying to interject abortion with Christmas or any other holiday is an awful thing to do.

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It's a natural for Thanksgiving.

[wacki]

If it makes you feel any better Dellathia, almost every girl I've ever been attracted to had small boobies. I love 'em!

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I have never been able to get close to a boy and that is largely because of my lack of breasts.

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Don't be stupid. It amazes me how many girls think this. I had a girl I was absolutely crazy about. I was extremely attracted to her. After the first time I got done licking her boobs she said to me "You don't like them?" I was shocked, I literally attacked her boobies and she still thought I didn't like them. I told her "No, they are proportional to your body." That was a big mistake, because she was really skinny and took that the wrong way. In the end it didn't work out, but to this day I still get warm inside thinking about her. She was amazing. So no matter how much you believe it, your boobs are not the problem.

You either haven't met the right person, or your doing something wrong. This may not be relevant to you, but children of controlling parents will often go well into their college years without ever being involved in a relationship. Even when they do get involved in a relationship they are very rarely intimate ones. Psychological problems can really hamper your ability to get involved in a relationship, no matter how badly you want one.


It really sounds to me that you need to take a look at yourself. You might be suffering from depression, posttraumatic stress disorder, social anxiety, or some other problem. It's not a big deal if you are because about 20% of females your age are. You might need medication (even if it's only to get you out of a temporary slump) or you might just need a good psychologist/psychiatrist to talk to. If you get one of those make sure you get one you click with. Bad psychologist/psychiatrist can do more harm than good, but the good ones can work wonders. Try one out and if it doesn't feel right switch to another. Good ones will constantly be educating you on what you need to be watching out for/how to think about things. They give you tools you need to get through life.

[BusterStacks]

Well it's not your personality that's gonna get guys... oh wait. I think you can now safely say that you will never know if someone (boyfriend, employer, etc.) likes you, or your chest. BTW, we can tell if they're fake, and we don't like bringing fake tits home to our mothers, so be prepared to get treated the way you are projecting yourself.

[sublime]

dellathia wore one of my favorite shirts to show off her new rack

[chabibi]

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I have never been able to get close to a boy and that is largely because of my lack of breasts

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im a young guy and i guess im a pretty shallow human being, i like tits just as much as anyone but i doubt your lack of them is the reason for this, the truth is most guys my age will bang a girl if she has a nice face/ass/legs and lots of guys (the ones who are not shallow) will apreciate a girl for her personality. if you lack all 4 things i listed i doubt BA will help you. if you have any of the following then you probably dont need the surgery