Would you be ok with your gf going skinny dipping with guys? - Page 15

[censored] · #**141** 07-25-2005, 03:22 PM

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I don't mean that she wantonly goes and has sex with lots of guys. The point is if she has slept with someone else before me or does after we break up, it does not make our sex any less special.

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Ok cool. I was concerned only because I had a ex that cheated on me and that as well as some of the other things from your posts were very familar the way she was and "logic" she would use. It was almost as if she would look for excuses and reasons to put herself into situations which could lead to something so that she could not feel responsible later.

Anways your situation is different and you know your girl.

good luck

bernie · #**142** 07-25-2005, 03:22 PM

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SHE DOES NOT SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS. Jesus, I hate OOT. It's a HYPOTHETICAL of situations in the past or future.

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I didn't say she did. I'm commenting on her thinking based on the way you wrote it.

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Easy E · #**143** 07-25-2005, 03:24 PM

Monogamy freak

[censored] · #**144** 07-25-2005, 03:24 PM

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I don't mean that she wantonly goes and has sex with lots of guys. The point is if she has slept with someone else before me or does after we break up, it does not make our sex any less special.

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I don't get that from your statement at all. It's implying that even if she sleeps with someone else 'while' dating you, yours is still special. You may want to read what you wrote again. There isn't any indication of before or after relationship status.

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That is how I took it was well. Basically saying even if she did sleep with someone else while with you it wouldn't be as special as with Kurosh so therefore he shouldn't get as upset as he rigthfully should want. Almost as if she would be conditioning him now to excuse and forgive her future f-up.

[censored] · #**145** 07-25-2005, 03:26 PM

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SHE DOES NOT SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS. Jesus, I hate OOT. It's a HYPOTHETICAL of situations in the past or future.

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Korush, I think most people in this thread do not want to see you get hurt, that's all.

bernie · #**146** 07-25-2005, 03:29 PM

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Monogamy freak

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Only when in a relationship. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Sorry, I just don't like to put my tongue where a few guys' cocks were the past week on a regular basis. [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

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Patrick del Poker Grande · #**147** 07-25-2005, 03:30 PM

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She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

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By explaining to her that anything she wantonly gives to other people is something that's not special to give to you. If she would kiss anyone, then it's no longer anything special for her to kiss you. Same principle.

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I've actually had this exact conversation with her about sex. Her argument is that it is still special with me because it's different with me than it would be if she was having sex with someone else.

EDIT: To clarify, this does not mean she fucks guys while we are dating. What she means is, if before we were dating, she had [censored] someone, it would not make our sex any less special because it is different.

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At this point, I'm willing to label this whole thing a troll. A highly entertaining troll, but still... You got greedy, Kurosh, and you went too far.

kurosh · #**148** 07-25-2005, 03:31 PM

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SHE DOES NOT SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS. Jesus, I hate OOT. It's a HYPOTHETICAL of situations in the past or future.

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Korush, I think most people in this thread do not want to see you get hurt, that's all.

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Heh... I doubt that, but I believe that you do and I'm truthfully grateful for it. Sorry. I get a little touchy when half the people in this thread are telling me she's [censored] other guys.

JunkHead · #**149** 07-25-2005, 03:31 PM

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Jesus, I hate OOT.

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Oh, delicious irony...

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ThisHo · #**150** 07-25-2005, 03:38 PM

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They are breaking into a pool and going swimming. She said there was a possibility of them skinny dipping and she would go along with it.

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I voted "Yes" this would be fine... as long as you realize that this is NOT the woman you want to marry. Trust me, you do NOT want to marry this chick. Date her, hit it (often!), enjoy the freakiness of someone that "plans" to go skinny dipping .. all = good! Just don't be surprised when you find out that she cheated (not that she will with her exBF and not that she will when she goes skinny dipping, but if planning to go skinny dipping is part of her then cheating will happen).

Also, breaking into a pool is stealing. See :http://tinyurl.com/877rh for more discussion.

ThisHo