On not contacting Girls...

[Bluffoon]

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Holy Christ, this is PATHETIC. Please, PLEASE learn from this and MOVE ON. You've got to learn that virtually every woman in the world is faced with men hitting on them all the time. Your goal, imo, is to find one that treats you decently and *doesn't* succumb to the advances of others.

He's a scumbag, I wouldn't do what he does, but a man trying to sleep with a woman with a bf is NOT rare. This means that he's not your problem, SHE is. You blame HER. He's essentially irrelevant and something she deals with all the time. You should NOT act like a loser and take it. It's hard, but that's what life is. You'll be a better person on the other side.

MOVE ON MOVE ON MOVE ON. Jesus Christ. You sound like SUCH a wimp. I'm sure you're an incredibly nice guy, too, which is the shame of it. Basically you sound like every man in the world before they learn better. Toughen up and move on. Your life will be better for it.

-bb.

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You know BB, I think you're talking crap. You don't know this woman yet you assume the worst. I don't like what's happened here and I want to talk to her about it, but to me, it sounds like you have problems with women.

Look there are two options here. One: A friend made a move on her, she declined, but maybe in a slightly inappropriate way tried to be nice about it and not tell him to [censored] off. If thats the case we need to talk about what happened and how it's not going to happen again.

Second option is something did happen, or she doesn't do anything to make it not happen again or i just don't believe her.

If that's the case, I'll do what I need to do, but I'm not go to throw away the chance to listen to what the woman I love has to say about a guy hitting on her because some guy on an internet message board calls me a wimp.

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Brit you are so in denial. Buriedbeds message is harsh but it is correct.

[Ortho]

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Holy Christ, this is PATHETIC. Please, PLEASE learn from this and MOVE ON. You've got to learn that virtually every woman in the world is faced with men hitting on them all the time. Your goal, imo, is to find one that treats you decently and *doesn't* succumb to the advances of others.

He's a scumbag, I wouldn't do what he does, but a man trying to sleep with a woman with a bf is NOT rare. This means that he's not your problem, SHE is. You blame HER. He's essentially irrelevant and something she deals with all the time. You should NOT act like a loser and take it. It's hard, but that's what life is. You'll be a better person on the other side.

MOVE ON MOVE ON MOVE ON. Jesus Christ. You sound like SUCH a wimp. I'm sure you're an incredibly nice guy, too, which is the shame of it. Basically you sound like every man in the world before they learn better. Toughen up and move on. Your life will be better for it.

-bb.

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You know BB, I think you're talking crap. You don't know this woman yet you assume the worst. I don't like what's happened here and I want to talk to her about it, but to me, it sounds like you have problems with women.

Look there are two options here. One: A friend made a move on her, she declined, but maybe in a slightly inappropriate way tried to be nice about it and not tell him to [censored] off. If thats the case we need to talk about what happened and how it's not going to happen again.

Second option is something did happen, or she doesn't do anything to make it not happen again or i just don't believe her.

If that's the case, I'll do what I need to do, but I'm not go to throw away the chance to listen to what the woman I love has to say about a guy hitting on her because some guy on an internet message board calls me a wimp.

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He's not talking crap. His tone is a little bit over the top, but imo what he's saying is clearly right. And it is equally obvious that most people in your position won't believe it's right until they get burned by it.

In summary, he's right but it doesn't matter because you're going to end up seeing for yourself, which is how it probably should be. Just learn from it this time and don't do it a second time.

[Boris]

Brit -

I would start going on dates with her sister, just as friends of course.

hahahaha! not.

[illeagle]

Brit,

Before you have drinks, buy some sexy underwear. Ask GF if she thinks they're nice. Then say, "Yeah I hope your sister likes them."

[2Fast]

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Why isn't your sexy neighbor or ex-girl friend over getting drunk and watching Cabin Fever with you?

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yeah what he said! Turnabout is fair play!

[Aloysius]

Brit - sorry for calling your girl a "whore". It was a little over the top.

Though something to think about: the advice in this thread is alarmingly similar to the advice in your original thread (which I'm too lazy to search for), concerning whether or not to date this chick in the first place.

The power dynamics are all out of whack here - she will not stop doing this to you, as she really doesn't have incentive to.

-Al

[irvman21]

Update?

[derosnec]

Wait, let me get this straight: she accepted the underwear gift? If so, kick her to the curb.

[Easy E]

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Easy, shouldn't your advice be to "keep your ho in check"?

Big fan, btw. Sorry to hear about the AIDS death.

-bb.

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Elvis has helped me straighten out my daily speaking style.

[Hack]

I found one of his girlfriend's threads on her forum:
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