Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?

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Seriously, man, what do you think this dude should do when he's a little buzzed and his ex-gf's hot little sister comes into his room and climbs into bed with him?

What if you find out that after she jumped into bed he said "Hey, you should leave, Burdz really likes you" and then she kissed him? Would he still be a dick?

What if then he said "Hey, we really shouldn't be doing this, Burdz would be really bummed" and then she grabbed his dick? Would he still be a dick?

What if he then said "Burdz is too good a friend, I can't do this" and she then took off her shirt and grabbed his hand and put it between her legs? Would he still be a dick?

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haha, very nice pic. As disturbing as that is, funny stuff. Keep stuff like that coming, it helps.

El D,

If this helps, I can give somewhat of a timeline from what I remember. We went our seperate ways around 3am. It's a small hallway, so one can hear doors closing/feet moving on floor. I wasn't asleep, but IIRC she went into his room around 3:15 or so. I heard talking. I went to wash my face around 3:45 in the bathroom that is directly in front of most of his room and heard them banging. Her guest room connected to mine, so would have been a pretty stupid move for him to come to her room and throw it in her, since I could easily hear everything. That'd be beyond stupid.

To whoever said I was more out of shape than Dids, from what I see of his gym thread pics, that wouldn't be the case. Good for him for making the great progress he has, I don't see the point in sidetracking here. Sorry, no shirtless pics of me, no one including myself wants to see that, I hope.

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I said man up and lose some weight. Not that you were as big as Dids. Look at the kind of trash ball shes banging. She likes some guy who looks like a little girl. You don't need to look like his gay ass but I think she obviously likes the skinny girly looking type guys.

[Los Feliz Slim]

El D et al,

You're saying that OP's roommate is not a douche?

[EvanJC]

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He didn't do anything a normal man wouldn't do but he did do something a true friend wouldn't do. Now you know.


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yep. feel free to turn some small thing into something huge at a later date with this friend, and retroactively [censored] him up. you can't hand him a beating just for this though, unfortunately.

[Big Poppa Smurf]

My gut reaction to this thread was to just respond with "haha you're an emo-[censored]!" but I decided to read the thread first.

All I have to say is SWEET VINDICATION I AM KING OF THE INTERWEBS

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Anyways Burdz some advice for you: your friend sounds like a dick, the best thing to do is just stop talking to him, because I bet all his friends eventually do the same, and then he winds up alone and crying and wondering why no one likes him (especially his daddy). This should appeal to your emo-ness as the perfect means of revenge.

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Op-I haven't read every post but did he know you liked her or had a crush on her?

[Alobar]

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Seriously, man, what do you think this dude should do when he's a little buzzed and his ex-gf's hot little sister comes into his room and climbs into bed with him?

What if you find out that after she jumped into bed he said "Hey, you should leave, Burdz really likes you" and then she kissed him? Would he still be a dick?

What if then he said "Hey, we really shouldn't be doing this, Burdz would be really bummed" and then she grabbed his dick? Would he still be a dick?

What if he then said "Burdz is too good a friend, I can't do this" and she then took off her shirt and grabbed his hand and put it between her legs? Would he still be a dick?

If this scenario involved your friend going into her room or otherwise pursuing her, I would have a somewhat different opinion here. But from what you've written, it sounds like your friend gave you the opportunity to pursue her and then she took the initiative and went after him. In that situation, especially after a few drinks, there's only so much you can reasonably expect someone to resist in his position.

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This is what im talking about when I say its shocking how many people are cavalier about friendships.

In every scenario you mentioned the friend should have pulled away, told her he wasnt cool with it cuz his best friend is into her. End of story.

Basically what you are saying is that its ok to put your base desires above the feelings of your friends. Im sorry I would never do something like that to one of my friends, and I wouldnt tolerate it if one of them did it to me. I know were all guys and we are supposed to be all cool and just go [censored] anything that comes our way cuz its what guys do. But no way in hell is putting my dick somewhere warm and moist for 30 mins more important than my best friend. And I think its pretty lame to rationalize it otherwise. It's not ok to hurt someone you've built a relationship with just for some selfish need.

You wouldnt be friends with someone who stole something from you, you wouldnt be friends with someone who belittles or insults you, you wouldnt be friends with someone flakes out on you everytime you need some help. Why is this any different? oooh yeah, cuz its for pussy so its all ok then.

[Poofler]

Totally agree with Alobar here. I wouldn't whine about it and think about how I'm going to confront him or anything emo like that. I'd just stop hanging out with him, I don't need friends who don't give a [censored] about me.

[DerrtySlime]

u seem to live a quiet life of desperation. life is a game and a dance! not a torture chamber! snap out of your UTTERLY PATHETIC spell of this once chick i've loved on the interweb' for 3 years and go out and meet some hot girls.

We are all waiting for you to write up a field report where you met some hot girls and realized this isn't so bad!
STOP focusing on the "problem" and start focusing on the solution.

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In the end, maintaining a friendship with her, even if it's Friend Zone forever>>>>>staying friends with this idiot, as he's gone out of his way on multiple occasions when drunk to embarass me severely (doing a battle rap about how my dick is small in front of a girl I liked, jumping me at his birthday party to impress his girlfriend). It's clear he has no respect for me whatsoever (and it shouldn't matter how much of a pussy I am if he considers me his best friend), and that he never will.

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Why the [censored] were you friends with this a-hole in the first place? There's Mistake #1. Mistake #2 would be bringing the nice girl you like within the same ZIP code as the a-hole with serious game.

Mistake #3 would be maintaining any tie at all with either your a-hole friend or the closet sloot who used to be the girl of your dreams.

[DeezNuts]

It's pretty apparent that the friend has no respect for OP(do you really blame him, though?). He acted accordingly.

Since OP is such a wuss, he will probably continue being friends with both the girl and the friend and still get disrespected at every turn with rap lyrics about his small penis.

Someone should make a post from the friend's or girl's point of view.

This thread delivers.