why boobs?

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I would never date a girl with implants. I think it's great, though, that you think by getting implants you'll attract the type of guys you really want to be with. Now you can understand why girls complain about how their man treats them like crap.

I've dated girls with huge ones, and I'm currently in love with a girl who is barely an A. It doesn't matter to me, and if it DOES matter to any guy, then they're merely a self-serving pig who'd be better suited dating that stuff you find at the bottom of your sink.

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Hi Kyro,
I applaud your altruism...but let's take a test, shall we?

Would you date a gal tha weighs 98 pounds?

Did I hear a yes?

How about 110 pounds?

Yes again?

How about 140?

Yes again?

240?

Thinking a little harder?

How about 340 pounds?....

I guarantee there's *somewhere* you draw the line.

Sadly we *are* animals, an physical attraction *does* play a role. *Particularly in Dating...which is the early part of a relationship. In most, but not all cases, the deeper stuff comes later.

You can't have a relationship if they avoid you.

I'm a classsic example of this. I'm pretty average these days, was for most of my life.

So usually, when people first meert me the react, "Geez he's a little strange, poker...electric guitars...surfing...strangely philosophical..." etc. But sometimes years later they tell me the felt that way at first...but after knowing me (usually for *years* they say... 'Now I understand".

BUT...during one part of my life I seriously did some working out...and used Ephedra/caffiene/aspirin + supplements...got tanned... did the whole beach body thing.

The strength of the positive reactions from women was amazing!

Even old female pals were more intersted.

But...I've seen other things work this magic before too...

At one time in my life I was doing computers at night, but stock brokering by day....

Whenever I said to a new acquintence "Systems Analyst" the eyes glazed over.... When I pulled out a business cards that said "Account Executive - Allied Capital Group"...that AMAZINGLY intersted attitude again.

Sad truth was...if they knew the truth...I was earninfg more with the computers at the time! (1988).

To be honest, it would be GREAT if we were all jus little spheres of pure conciousness floating around in the universe...but sadly...we are trapped inside bodies.