Ask BOTW what it is like to be a stalker...

BOTW · #1 07-29-2006, 05:30 AM

I see hints...

neuroman · #2 07-29-2006, 05:32 AM

Somebody is being drunk and coy. Bad idea.

Full trip report, please.

kyleb · #3 07-29-2006, 05:32 AM

Post your resume and references, please.

BOTW · #4 07-29-2006, 05:32 AM

Unfortunately, no one is dead. I should stop now, I suppose.

Edit: not coy, I've been in jail for this. My version of trip report: I was a good guy and supported her. My friends and her friends and the cops version: I forced her into being nice to me. She was scared.

SNOWBALL · #5 07-29-2006, 05:59 AM

Why stalk one girl exclusively instead of trying to get to know a few different girls and find one that you can have a relationship with? Are you very picky? Do you meet many women? What's your relationship pattern like? What kind of women have you gone out with? What kid of women are you interested in?

cambraceres · #6 07-29-2006, 06:14 AM

Trenchcoat, or paramilitary dress?

BOTW · #7 07-29-2006, 06:14 AM

This is old news, so I don't see myself ever doing it again, though the possibility does exist.

At the time, she wasn't "one girl", she was the ONLY girl. I could not see anyone else but her. I did it. I didn't know what I was doing at the time, but it felt like what I was doing was right. I thought "I love you" so that means whatever I do is OK. My entire focus was her, there were no other girls. None. I could look at Playboy or porn or a girl at the bar--every single one was not worthy. They all fell short or reminded me of her.

Yes, I am picky. My current relationships appear ok.

It never felt like I chose to stalk her, it felt like my duty.

kyleb · #8 07-29-2006, 06:15 AM

This story sucks.

BOTW · #9 07-29-2006, 06:41 AM

sorry kyleb.

This sucks or is lucky, too. I went to her boyfriend's apt with a softball bat to bash him. I picked the lock but I couldn't get in cuz I was trying to push the door in, but it was a pull. I did this thrice.

Unfortunately there is no "she's dead" or otherwise spectacular finale to my story. There's just me realizing how stupid I was. I suppose I had ulterior motives to bringing this up, but I am serious in that I want to share to help others.

kyleb · #10 07-29-2006, 06:42 AM

It's getting better. Please disclose the full story.