Question for happily married people

[vulturesrow]

The biggest thing for me was to realize that no marriage is perfect. The fairytale world of marriage foisted on us by popular entertainment is a completely myth. It will be hard sometimes and sometimes you'll wonder why you bothered. Dont expect it to be perfect, because it wont be. Try not to let petty arguments and issues obscure the big picture.

Cliffs Notes: Dont sweat the small stuff, marriage isnt perfect. Maximize the good times.