I just cant stand losing, I go crazy

[Shizzle12345]

In general I cant stand losing, I reall really hate to lose. When i was a little kid i would destroy stuff and go apeshit when i lost at a game or whatever it was, family games, the smallest things.

I had a strategy computer game a while ago. Basicly you battle someone else online for like 20-40 minutes and the most most skilled and experienced player would win. At first i was playing for fun, but i didnt have to do much so i started playing more. and soon i was starting a game and when i was about to lose i would go apeshit, and lose the game anyway, and then destroy stuff and get really angry.

I removed the game, because if your not playing for fun, why waste time?

Basicly this not being able to deal with losing stands in the way to progress at anything, because well, you gotta lose to learn..

With that computer game, I basicly was afraid to play better players because i just didnt want to lose..

How do you deal with this ? :S

I guess i have to see things more the way they are..