How Long Before You Say " I LuV U"?

[mother_brain]

I'm pushing six weeks and feel this is probably the under. Let em rip and reasons are fine too. Like maybe you were older or had kids or grew up together. Just average relationship time these days.

[Alobar]

never before her

[Darth Poker]

as long at it takes so that I'm positive that I'm not mistaking passionate infatuation for real love. in the two instances in my life where I actually did love the girl, it was easily a year or more before I'd feel comfortable saying it and meaning it. and I certainly wouldnt say it if I didnt mean it...that's just the way I am.

usually, the girl would say it far earlier - and I'm not sure that they weren't passionately infatuated and making the common mistake of not knowing where the real line differentiating the two feelings was.

[private joker]

There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

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There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

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So far this is the best advice

[TheCroShow]

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There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

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So far this is the best advice

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had the "i love you" blow up in my face once, of course at the time i thought "eff it, i'll just give it a go and see what happens." DOH

[Sephus]

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I'm not mistaking passionate infatuation for real love

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i didn't know there was a difference.

[Fedfan691]

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usually, the girl would say it far earlier - and I'm not sure that they weren't passionately infatuated and making the common mistake of not knowing where the real line differentiating the two feelings was.

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I find it hard to believe any girl could be "passionately infatuated" with a guy who uses the username Darth Poker.

[SackUp]

after 23 BJs you are allowed to say it. Never before.

Before then she doesn't love you, so no reason to love her.

[mother_brain]

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after 23 BJs you are allowed to say it. Never before.

Before then she doesn't love you, so no reason to love her.

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yeah this seems good