Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[Shajen]

Diablo,

Nice work.

[Tappy Tibbons]

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Tappy,

Everyone needs to move at their own speed with a style that's comfortable to them. Perhaps the techniques that have worked for you are not the same as the ones that will be most effective for Doc.

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Your recommendations were just a continuation of what he's been trying all along, without success. It's obvious that he's not comfortable with making a move, and that needs to change if he's to have any success whatsoever with women in his life. Continuing on with a weak-tight approach, even if he is comfortable with that, will not work.

[El Diablo]

Tappy,

The difference between my recommendations and the way he had been approaching things is that mine move him forward at a pace that's likely to be comfortable for him while getting him closer and closer to the "moves" you are talking about, all as part of a coordinated plan of action. I know you would much earlier in the process just jump in there and "tap that ass" but some of us like to take things at a little more relaxed pace. When doing that, it is important to keep focus, though, which is why having a well thought out plan is so critical.

[tuq]

The Obvious Police sent me here, saying that someone whose nickname is ElD is involved in an very subtle campaign of sarcasm. Is this the correct address?

[gasoltub]

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You stupid XXXX!! This is the kind of post that should get you at least one *.

[Tappy Tibbons]

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The Obvious Police sent me here, saying that someone whose nickname is ElD is involved in an very subtle campaign of sarcasm. Is this the correct address?

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The sad thing is, that's exactly the type of advice I followed in the past, before I learned to develop some game. Good one ElD - I fell for it all the way.

[SoloAJ]

FWIW, I think Tappy and Magellen gave terrible advice in recent posts. This is nothing against you two guys, but it seems like you're advising under the idea that OP has a chance with this girl and/or should even WANT a chance with this girl. She is bad news. He needs to cut bait...

El D made some good points. Dom made the best point. He really should be xxxclose toxxxx(edit:delete that phrase) giving up. As NUMEROUS posters have said, people would have KILLED for this information when younger. He is just wasting it by rubbing her hair and staring at her legs. What is the point?

I mean I want to be updated and I'm not going to be a jackoff that says hes "done with this thread" but I am on official recommendation of him getting this girl out of his life pronto. I'm with Blarg on this one...

It amazes me that some you still think he should try to get with her [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[Tappy Tibbons]

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FWIW, I think Tappy and Magellen gave terrible advice in recent posts. This is nothing against you two guys, but it seems like you're advising under the idea that OP has a chance with this girl and/or should even WANT a chance with this girl. She is bad news. He needs to cut bait...

El D made some good points. Dom made the best point. He really should be xxxclose toxxxx(edit:delete that phrase) giving up. As NUMEROUS posters have said, people would have KILLED for this information when younger. He is just wasting it by rubbing her hair and staring at her legs. What is the point?

I mean I want to be updated and I'm not going to be a jackoff that says hes "done with this thread" but I am on official recommendation of him getting this girl out of his life pronto. I'm with Blarg on this one...

It amazes me that some you still think he should try to get with her [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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I agree that he should cut her off, but it looks like he has "one-itis" and is obsessing over this girl. Since he's probably not willing to cut all ties right now, I recommended things that will make him more attractive to her (learning to game other women). Once he has the ability to attract women in general, he'll have many more options, and will probably cut off this girl on his own.

[SoloAJ]

Tappy,

If he somehow got this girl more interested....You do realize the repercussions of that right? He would be stuck on her forever and I think it's clear he is never going to get all the way with this girl..at least not to the emotional degree that he is hoping...

I think getting her more attracted at this point would be terrible. Better play is to go strikeout with some other women and test new game on multiple ladies, like most people tried around his age (or younger).

-Solo

[Hopey]

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Would the next phase after this be to play a game of Twister or would that be moving too fast?

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I think the next phase is giving her his school pin, followed 6 months later by some heavy petting.