An Awesome Girl Question! (sex problem)

[Phil153]

Your penis isn't too large. The problem is that her vagina isn't ready for cock. Keep trying and eventually you'll get there. The biggest problem is her body getting tense at this weird new experience. Another problem could be lubrication.

FWIW it took about two months with my gf (I was 16, her 18, both virgins) to get anything working. We tried to have sex on the first date, which ended up being a total disaster, and two months later we finally made it. I'm in the upper end of average, but still very normal sized. The feeling when you finally get there and get it all the way in is unmistakable, and it's pretty much smooth sailing from there.

I went through a similar thing with the whole precum thing too - was [censored] scared for two weeks when her period was late (she said it was regular like clockwork). I think the whole precum thing is overblown unless you're trigger happy, which is unlikely at 22.

Good luck!

[Milo]

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I think the whole precum thing is overblown unless you're trigger happy, which is unlikely at 22.


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This is so very wrong.

[Phil153]

I may be wrong. But I think it's a fairly long shot to get pregnant anyway even with a full load, all in way in, and her orgasming when she's out of ovulation. Just poking around seems fairly harmless to me if you have any control at all. Out of ovulation I'd hazard to say it's safer than the pill.

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With precum, you never know. Sometimes there's no sperm, sometimes there's as much as there would be in normal ejaculate. If I were OP, I wouldn't hazard to guess when I'm lethal or when I'm shooting blanks.

[Milo]

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I may be wrong. But I think it's a fairly long shot to get pregnant anyway even with a full load, all in way in, and her orgasming when she's out of ovulation. Just poking around seems fairly harmless to me if you have any control at all. Out of ovulation I'd hazard to say it's safer than the pill.

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Ovulation is notoriously elusive for most women, and sperm kive quite a while once deposited.

You suck at giving sex advice.

[Grue]

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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[Phil153]

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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http://www.managingcontraception.com..._10-20-00.html
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the percent of women experiencing an unintended pregnancy within the first year of using withdrawal as a method of birth control is from 4 % (perfect users) to 19 % (typical users).

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These are people who regularly go near ejaculation and withdraw beforehand, a LOT more stimulation, depth and frequency involved than just poking around.

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Some concern exists that the pre-ejaculate fluid may carry sperm into the vagina. In itself, the pre-ejaculate, a lubricating secretion produced by the Littre or Cowper's glands, contains no sperm. A study examining the pre-ejaculate for the presence of spermatozoa found none in the samples of 16 men. The chances of such sperm [occasionally found in precum, left behind from a PREVIOUS ejaculation] causing fertilization must be low, though not negligible." Malcolm Potts and Peter Diggory, Textbook of Contraception

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Now can we stop hating on my sex advice and get back to the OP?

[Milo]

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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http://www.managingcontraception.com..._10-20-00.html
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the percent of women experiencing an unintended pregnancy within the first year of using withdrawal as a method of birth control is from 4 % (perfect users) to 19 % (typical users).

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These are people who regularly go near ejaculation and withdraw beforehand, a LOT more stimulation, depth and frequency involved than just poking around.

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Some concern exists that the pre-ejaculate fluid may carry sperm into the vagina. In itself, the pre-ejaculate, a lubricating secretion produced by the Littre or Cowper's glands, contains no sperm. A study examining the pre-ejaculate for the presence of spermatozoa found none in the samples of 16 men. The chances of such sperm [occasionally found in precum, left behind from a PREVIOUS ejaculation] causing fertilization must be low, though not negligible." Malcolm Potts and Peter Diggory, Textbook of Contraception

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Now can we stop hating on my sex advice and get back to the OP?

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Phil, this means that the low estimate of women who will get pregnant PER YEAR of using withdrawal is 4%. Keep in mind that estimates are as LOW as 4% and as HIGH as 37%. Regardless, unless the OP is a supreme [censored], he will not take a 1/20 chance of having a baby to care for the rest of his life, just to avoid birth control. Remember, we are talking about someone who sucks at having sex so much he doesn't know WTF he is doing and has to ask OOT for advice. Chances are, he accidently nuts before he pulls out.

[gorie]

get her excited first.

use lots of lube (it will help a lot for the first time and make it easier for her to accept your weiner).

wear a condom.

thrust.

the end.

[Blarg]

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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http://www.managingcontraception.com..._10-20-00.html
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the percent of women experiencing an unintended pregnancy within the first year of using withdrawal as a method of birth control is from 4 % (perfect users) to 19 % (typical users).

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These are people who regularly go near ejaculation and withdraw beforehand, a LOT more stimulation, depth and frequency involved than just poking around.

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Some concern exists that the pre-ejaculate fluid may carry sperm into the vagina. In itself, the pre-ejaculate, a lubricating secretion produced by the Littre or Cowper's glands, contains no sperm. A study examining the pre-ejaculate for the presence of spermatozoa found none in the samples of 16 men. The chances of such sperm [occasionally found in precum, left behind from a PREVIOUS ejaculation] causing fertilization must be low, though not negligible." Malcolm Potts and Peter Diggory, Textbook of Contraception

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Now can we stop hating on my sex advice and get back to the OP?

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Phil, this means that the low estimate of women who will get pregnant PER YEAR of using withdrawal is 4%. Keep in mind that estimates are as LOW as 4% and as HIGH as 37%. Regardless, unless the OP is a supreme [censored], he will not take a 1/20 chance of having a baby to care for the rest of his life, just to avoid birth control. Remember, we are talking about someone who sucks at having sex so much he doesn't know WTF he is doing and has to ask OOT for advice. Chances are, he accidently nuts before he pulls out.

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Notable too is that chances are everyone would blow a load sooner or later.