How do you handle this fine line??

[diddyeinstein]

What me and my girlfriend do is just not talk about all the work stuff that pisses us off, because it just kind of angers you all over again when you are at home. This is not a good thing. I mean it's bad enough to live through it once, why dredge up those emotions discussing it a second time.

I used to do what your gf does, then I decided that I wasn't going to [censored] up my time at home worrying about stuff at work.