Need PUA advice

[nath]

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No, it's pretty clear that if OP continues to try to bang her, he will continue being the guy trying to bang her. OP needs to spend less time trying to bang her and more time actually banging her.


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I agree, but if he doesn't try, he will get nowhere. He hasn't tried hard enough.

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No, that's the exact opposite of what he needs to hear. He's been "trying" a ton. This girl has been ready to go for some time, and if he'd stop "trying" and just man up and make a move, he'd be in there.

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And yes, if you can get her while sober you're in. I not talking about a relationship, I'm talking more in the terms of potentially steady ass.

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I was being sarcastic because he's so obviously in if he has sex with her sober-- in fact, that's pretty much the definition of "in". And honestly in this case, who cares if she's drunk? It's college.

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OP will then know he wasn't one of those she "regrets".

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The wrong way to do this is to be the nice, sensitive guy who wants to make sure she won't regret it when he finally does sleep with her, so he never makes a move at any time he thinks it might be untoward or "taking advantage" of her.
The right way to do this is to [censored] her, then let her worry about whether or not she regrets it. If you're awesome (at life or in bed, preferably both) she won't. Unfortunately, based on this thread, OP seems unlikely to be either.

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BTW Nath, no WSOP BBV Graph this year?

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It's pretty much a straight line downward, unless trips to the Spearmint Rhino count as upswings.

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Just wanted to add something. Everyone already mentioned the fact that OP had quite a few chances where she clearly wanted to [censored]. But what no body mentioned yet is when she mentioned wanting to get with some other previously mentioned guy [i forget names, too lazy to quote post], and OP remarks "(wtf??)." There were already indications in what she said that shows that she gets around, but this really solidifies the issue and shows that OP's chances are basically over now that she has probably realized he is a dork.

Honestly I feel bad for the girl, she was trying to get some and chose OP instead of the other guy, and came up dry twice.