Infidelity

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If your marriage was like a business relationship then why don't you let her continue to bang her new bf and not get a divorce? That way you could keep the house and an intact family unit. Obviously there would have to be some ground rules like the other dude can not enter your domicile and bla, bla, bla...

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That would be called an open marriage and neither of us are into that.

My wife wants to divorce and start a new life with her boss. She thinks she will have a happier life. I wanted to reconcile but I gave up a few weeks ago bc it was like talking to a drug addict. Now I wait for their relationship to die and then decide what is best for the kids. If they are still young, then I may consider reconciling but if they are old enough to remember a lot of details then it's too late anyways.....the damage will have already been done so no poiunt reconciling.

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My wife wants to divorce and start a new life with her boss. She thinks she will have a happier life. I wanted to reconcile but I gave up a few weeks ago bc it was like talking to a drug addict. Now I wait for their relationship to die and then decide what is best for the kids. If they are still young, then I may consider reconciling but if they are old enough to remember a lot of details then it's too late anyways.....the damage will have already been done so no poiunt reconciling.

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You are obviously still in denial. You have false hopes of her coming back to you. Eventually you will accept that you don't have any control over the situation and the marriage is over...

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My wife wants to divorce and start a new life with her boss. She thinks she will have a happier life. I wanted to reconcile but I gave up a few weeks ago bc it was like talking to a drug addict. Now I wait for their relationship to die and then decide what is best for the kids. If they are still young, then I may consider reconciling but if they are old enough to remember a lot of details then it's too late anyways.....the damage will have already been done so no poiunt reconciling.

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You are obviously still in denial. You have false hopes of her coming back to you. Eventually you will accept that you don't have any control over the situation and the marriage is over...

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No, I don't have false hopes (anymore)that my wife will come back. I know her relationship with her boss will end at some point, it may take 5 years but it will end. Unlike my wife, I am not chasing a dream of being in a lovey dovey marriage. I have yound kids now and if it takes reconciling and living in a business like marriage in order for my kids to not be [censored] up, then that is what I would do. If I had no kids, there would be no talk of reconciling.