How much does a girl's promiscuous past bother you?

[bernie]

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Being hypocritical about this kind of thing is pretty funny, but it's human nature.

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I think maturity also plays a role.

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[bernie]

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So you don't think you'd be good enough to marry either if you banged someone on the 1st date?

That goes both ways.

Man, there's alot of people with hangups in this thread. Even funnier is the double standards. Meaning, what applies to their possible g/f doesn't exactly apply to them.


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jesus you can't be good at poker.

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Yeah, it's tough to look in the mirror sometimes, isn't it?

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[sethypooh21]

bernie is owning this thread pretty hard. The amount of latent insecurity involved with the attitude that you want a girl who wants to sleep with you but never anyone else, before or after, is pretty mindblowing. Unless you're Dom, your unit ain't that special, and unless you're El Diablo, neither is your personality.

[Blarg]

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Being hypocritical about this kind of thing is pretty funny, but it's human nature.

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I think maturity also plays a role.

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It can and should.

[lapoker17]

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Yeah, it's tough to look in the mirror sometimes, isn't it?

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uhhhhh...where in my post did i state - or even imply - that if i banged a girl on the first date i would think that i was still marriage material?

[NajdorfDefense]

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who cares? The more experience a girl has just means I'm going to benefit from that knowledge. ...
I used to care, now not at all

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obviously it's not important unless you're considering a girl for a future girlfriend/wife. Slutty girls are preferable if your not looking for anything serious.

That's a good girlfriend and you don't get that [censored] from a girl who's in her 20's and been with 20 or 30 guys....But seriously guys good luck with turning whatever whores put out for you guys into future wifes or whatever. And don't get me wrong, slutty girls are great, i just know better now than to get serious with them.

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Your reply is stupid. A 29-yr old girl can't have been with 20 guys? < 2 guys a year since she turned 18? Are you really that insecure??

'Slutty' = in the past. No one is saying to be serious with a girl who cheats on you.

Also, your girl wasn't crying because some dude asked her to dance and her friends egged him on, it was because she blew him in the bathroom most likely. But whatever.

[pokulator]

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Yeah, it's tough to look in the mirror sometimes, isn't it?

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uhhhhh...where in my post did i state - or even imply - that if i banged a girl on the first date i would think that i was still marriage material?

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andre 3000 said it best:

i know she think i think she just some kinda hoe,
i don't give a sh!t about giving it up on the first night,
that just let me know she know what she want outta life,
.....what what what if she's the one?

[sethypooh21]

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But seriously guys good luck with turning whatever whores put out for you guys into future wifes or whatever. And don't get me wrong, slutty girls are great, i just know better now than to get serious with them.

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This attitude puts me on life tilt so hard. Somehow, a woman enjoying sex and thus seeking it out is so horrible as to make her worthy of ostracization and stigmatization (you are essentially calling her behavior criminal). The Groucho Marx attitude that you don't want to belong to any club that would have you as a member is only amusing if you are Groucho Marx.

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"i wouldn't care if you were a prostitute
and if you hit every man that you ever knew
see it wouldn't make a difference
if that was way before me and you girl"

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I don't think it's hypocritical to enjoy spending time with someone that is different than / compliments me.

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It's hypocritical to look down on/feel superior to people who engage in the same type of behavior you do.

If you think it's "bad" for a girl to slutt around even though you've been doing the same thing, then congratulations, you're a hypocrite.

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boys and girls aren't the same dude. women aren't programed to bang 50 dudes by the age of 21. if they do, it means they have issues. it means that they probably aren't going to make a good mother.