I have no social skills, am incredibly boring, and want to end it

[kidcolin]

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It's hard to bring yourself out and want to talk to people until you feel really comfortable with yourself. Do you feel like a failure or someone who doesn't have a lot going on personality-wise or intellectually? If your passivity around people reflects a lack of involvement in your own life, maybe you could start to change that by doing more stuff and getting interested in more stuff. Then you'll have more to talk about and more people to talk about it with.

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I agree with this. I'm mostly an introvert, but I'm very outgoing once I'm comfortable with my situation. Since I moved to a new city I've gone through bouts of sucking at life and not doing much at all. To fix it, I find activities to do and as a rule I become more social. Just recently I started playing basketball, working on my game and my conditioning. I've met a few cool dudes down at the court as a result, and find I'm more social than I give myself credit for.