girl troubles

[tmcdmck]

I have been in a very similar situation. breaking up from a serious relationship ALWAYS makes you feel bad, even if you are certain it is what you want. I think this is because the relationship would never have become serious is there was not something in the girl you thought was great. As you approach the breakup, the nice part of you starts reminding you of why you liked her so much, because you feel that you will be an [censored] if you do not consider it, if you just chuck away however long a period of time without some reflection first.

Conclusion: Just because it suddenly feels wrong before you breakup, does not mean anything has changed, it is standard. Push on with it if your mind knows it should be over. FOr about a month you might wonder if you did the right thing, then after that you will feel about 100lbs lighter.