Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?

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ElD,

Did you ask Ashman or Daryn about my appearance? Daryn hasn't seen me in a few years so I've packed on a little muscle, but I'm no twig. The other things are about right, though making the actual move was pretty much the only thing I didn't do. When she would get in close, she'd then lean back and slide across the couch. Just fillin' in details. Also, he's sexed three girls in his lifetime, and majority of friends are through drugs, but that probably goes for a good amount of people so lame for me to hate on that.

Also, before this she always considered the friend "as a brother" to her.

Triumph,

I've hooked him up with a few of his ex-girlfriends, including one of my fairly good friends. She always laughed about how he had a hard time getting it up, especially when drunk (and yes, at least he's getting some, joke's on me).

KyleB,

Right on.

All,

Guess I'm a pussy, but I had no desire to bang her. I sincerely liked her, that's what made it far harder for me to make a move unfortunately, even if that excuse sucks; if I just thought she was hot I wouldn't care about rejection as much and would just go for it. Making out was my goal, I don't set the bar very high for myself obv. Foolish of me to want a relationship, them the breaks. If that's stuck in HS, then so be it.

Taso,

Do I know you from somewhere?

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Dude,
He really did you a favor if this is gonna smarten you up some. She wanted to get bent over and you had your tail between your legs. It's imperative to be able to read chicks and give them what they want. Playing the nice guy is super lame and chicks will treat you like their girlfriend crying on your shoulder about their relationship problems and then go suck some strange dude off that they meet after they are finnished using you for their emotional tampon for the night.

You woulda been way better off grabbing her ass and telling her "I want you" earlier in the night. If she says no you know where you stand. Then you couldn't so easily justify being angry at your friend.

I realize I"m being harsh but u need to toughen up when dealing with bitches.