Best friend slept with girl of my dreams, what SHOULD I do?

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What sort of approach do I take in confrontation though?

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Here's an article from a female point of view that might shed some insight into your situation. Not trying to kick you when you're down, but maybe a small part of this article will resonate with you. You can't blame anyone for something that was out of your control to begin with - distance factor, bad timing, unrequited advances, whatever. So she picked him, and simultaneously sent a major blow to your ego. Get over it! And don't get wrapped up emotionally any further with this girl.