Female on Paxil, Things have changed

[Phil153]

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Yah geez, sorry for not wanting to just screw anything that moves and looks my way (Or at least, acting on those desires [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] )

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A girl I have liked (even convinced myself I am in love with, probably) for a long time

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[Doc7]

Took your post as the general OOT attitude of SIIHP first, think about it later attitude.

[uncleshady]

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the paxil is having the opposite effect on her sex drive, she has told me numerous times she can't "get off" (in quotes to seem less crude lol) now due to the paxil.

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This is perfect, now you don't have to be bothered with annoyances like "technique" or "staying power"

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Exactly. Just finish in 10 seconds and be like, "I'm just trying to save you the frustration!" Or... Plan B. Buy a vibrator and let her go to town for 2 hours or whatever and right when she's about to hit, get your [censored] in there and record a save. High fives and gatorade afterwards...

[Clarkmeister]

You hit the lottery and you're questioning ripping up the ticket? You'll always look back and wonder what if. And this is likely your one and only shot with her. Go for it.

[JaBlue]

this is the only good girl thread in a LONG time - way to go Doc!

clarkmeisterisright

[ChrisV]

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lol this girl has a crazy sex drive, she just can't "get off, even when I am trying!"

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Anorgasmia is pretty common with SSRIs. Get her to talk to her doctor about it. He may be able to prescribe bupropion or buspirone which might help.

[Doc7]

I'm not really sure she would appreciate my seeking OOT advice or "Hey, I looked up some [censored] you could take to try to get off" at this stage...

edit: Could go with the "Why don't you say something to the doc" route, but she also might just not want to do that.

[chesspain]

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You hit the lottery and you're questioning ripping up the ticket? You'll always look back and wonder what if. And this is likely your one and only shot with her. Go for it.

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You suck, Clark. Now you got me thinking about that doe-eyed freshman whose dorm room I was in twenty years ago when I was teaching her psych 100 class. We were getting down to it, but I stopped and left, after I saw my graduate school standing and future career potentially going down in flames.

Clark...you're even worse than Bison.

[Blarg]

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Yes sexually and just in terms of being more than "just friends". Both were explicitly brought up.

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So now that she's no longer as interested in sex, she finds you more attractive?

That doesn't sound too flattering.

[Blarg]

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I'm not really sure she would appreciate my seeking OOT advice or "Hey, I looked up some [censored] you could take to try to get off" at this stage...

edit: Could go with the "Why don't you say something to the doc" route, but she also might just not want to do that.

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You can't be serious. She wouldn't like that you've taken an interest in her and looked something up? What, are you figuring she's afraid the encyclopedia might be snickering and telling tales to the thesaurus? Or think she would prefer disinterest, sexual discomfort on your part, or an inability to discuss important things with her?

Jeez man, get some macho going.