Need your opinion... Does this wife owe him more?

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Even though some of the people on these forums are mature and supportive, there's a bunch of us who actually have real, monetary expectations of our partners.


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No contradiction between the two.

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2. I confess I have more gender bias then I want to admit. I think I'm more understanding of the wife taking a low-paying, easy job, or taking months to even find a job, then I am of a husband doing this. I don't know why I expect so much from you guys!

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Because it's the cultural norm both to do so and to think absolutely nothing of it. It's even politically and culturally incorrect to admit alternatives, much less seriously examine them.

In a lot of ways, we're still really in the dark ages culturally.