My son wants to get laid

[Grunch]

Disclaimer: I'm not a parent.

That said, I'm very suprised that virtually every reply to the OP seems to be a variant of "You should just let them do what they want because X."

For example,

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If you try and stop them, they're just gonna hate you (that's way too strong, but I can't think of a good synonym) and do it anyway.


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Unless the family is seriously dysfunctional, a parent being a parent isn't going to irreperably damage the parent's relationship with thier kid. Yes, they kid will probably get upset when they are not allowed to do something they want to do. Tough [censored]. They will get over it.

The way I see it is this.

On the one hand, your kid will be pissed off for a while.

On the other hand, you have a pregnant 16 year old, a sexually transmitted disease possibly resulting in death, and neither partner being mature enough or experienced enough in life to handle a sexual relationship making thier future relationships more f-ed up.

Seems clear to me.

[CallYNotRaise06]

both my parents were really cool w/ it. as long as i wrapped it, they didnt have a problem w/ it.

[Dementia]

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On the other hand, you have a pregnant 16 year old, a sexually transmitted disease possibly resulting in death, and neither partner being mature enough or experienced enough in life to handle a sexual relationship making thier future relationships more f-ed up.

Seems clear to me.

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It does, wear a rubber.

Perhaps at 16 you weren't mature enough to handle a sexual relationship, sorry for that, but not every 16 year old is a bumbling idiot who doesn't understand the importance of using protection and being smart.

At 16 I never wrapped it though, and I'm still standing. =)

[Carlson411]

Maybe she can give him backdoor action if you are worried about the pregnancy. Hey their's ways around the pregnancy issue. STD, no problem. We got cream and pills for that(depending on which one) or just let him rock the rubber. Double bag it if she's that much of a freak. Let this kid bust one off. Think about it, if you let him bust one off now he won't end up having a lot of sexual partners in college. Man those were the great days. You can be like a dog in an open kennel. Bust your nut every where you go.

[ImGoodToGo]

I freakin' love this thread

[hondoishere]

Whoa double bagging increases the chances of it breaking. Increases the friction dont you know anything. I hope when you go to AC you dont double bag with those hookers cuz chances are you have aids. We dont have any creams or pills for that to say.

18 to get a motel in most places as far as I know. In addtion if you pay in cash they wont stop you unless its a nice place which he probably can't afford anyway. Econolodge doesnt care if your sons looking for somewhere

[nation]

My parents were pretty strict with me about this stuff, and I still got laid by 16.

Honestly, I feel like telling him its ok is a mistake, because it'll probably make him start pressuring the girl into doing it. Just let it naturally go on; it's more fun when you have to go through some twists and setbacks to finally get laid.

Also, you have a responsibility to the girls parents to not let them have a sex place to go to...just my 2 cents.

[centaurmyth]

come to think of it, i flip-flop entirely on my previous post, and i now agree with nation's logic entirely. instead of giving him your authentic interpretation of sexuality as the dominant male figure in his life, it's even smarter to make it as difficult as possible for this lil nutbusto to get his wax on. after all, the more resilient he becomes in overcoming adversity, the better off he will be.

for added difficulty, let him know that you have your eye on the registries of local motels, and hint that he had GPS implants when he was born "just in case."

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My parents were pretty strict with me about this stuff, and I still got laid by 16.

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http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/6161691.stm

Did you make sure you bought the extra small condoms?