In all seriousness, what are you looking for in a woman?

[J.Brown]

please quit denying your unbelievably bad case of only loving asian girls. please. btw is your back better?

[img]/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img] J.

[guids]

I thought Tennenbaum was a dude.

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Here's my general list.

- Practical - I really dislike prentetious women. She has to be an everyday kinda girl that can handle herself without worrying about breaking a nail. High maintance women need not apply.

- Similar sense of humor - What's the point of being with someone that doesn't get you.

- Kind - I don't want someone that is a wuss, but they should have a certain kindness that is genuine.

- Intelligence/Smart - This doesn't mean a Phd in Partical Physics. I've known a number of women that haven't even been to college, but who have smarts, you might say wisdom as well.

- Self-sufficient - Nothing is more annoying then having a women who calls you to change a light bulb.

- Funness - Has to have some sense of adventure. I don't mean she wants to water ski the Bearing Sea, but she should want to try new things, even if it's just a new resturaunt.

- Devoted to me - Hey, let's be honest here we all want someone that loves us for who we are and is devoted and committed to us. What's the point of having any LTR without this.

- Trustworthy - Obvioulsy, but you'd be surprised at how many people really aren't. I've only meet one girl that I've ever really trusted and it was because she didn't given me any reason not to trust her. Most of the others have.

- Attractiveness - I have to be attracted to her in some way. That can be many things including overall beauty and personality, but once someone reaches that level, it's the things above that seal the deal

- Sex - If she doesn't like sex or is a prude then that's a deal breaker. There are many many more women out there that are like this then men sadly.

That's the basic list, but it probably isn't that much different then what many women would list. People aren't really that different.

[ScottieK]

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I like happy girls. I have tried to make too many sad, angry, confused, worried, needy, demanding ladies with lots of problems happy. It can't be done. So I just want one that is already happy without me having to try to do it for her.

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Amen to that. It's just way too frustrating and way too much effort. Thankfully my current gf is naturally happy, has her own friends, doesn't play games, and doesn't like drama.

Things I also value highly are honesty, a caring disposition, a similar sense of humor, intelligence, and an ability to take care of herself....both financially and physically.

Things that I really enjoy but can do without are an interest in watching sports (especially football), likes good beer, likes guy movies, can cook, likes barbecue, likes to clean, likes sushi, likes to travel, and likes most things I like. Of course, this can be taken too far...who wants to be with someone who likes everything they like and never has anything new to offer? My gf likes most of the things I like, but her tastes in music, food, gambling, and some other things are different. But at least she's willing to try craps, blackjack, and sushi [img]/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] She still doesn't like any of them though [img]/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img]

And for some reason, I'm a sucker for blonde hair, blue eyes, B cups, and a cute ass.

On the sexuality aspect....yes, it's important, but I don't need a nympho to keep me happy. Sexual experience is also overrated, IMO.

ScottieK

[Tennenbaum]

Ha ha ha. I'm not worried about anything. I made a joke in the random things thread about fearing not getting a man because they all want asian chicks. Which spurred two responses in particular, one of which from NT said something along the lines of finding a chick who doesnt mind skid marks while doing laundry is about as good as he hopes for.

Which got me thinking. Lots of posts are made on here about hot chicks, and cool chicks alike. I was simply curious as to what the OOTers look for in a chick. Not because I'm worried about finding a man.

Truth be told I really dont want anything to do with a relationship right now. I've gone through two things recently that made me just decide that I'm quite ok with being by myself. I think it's just that period in my life.

So dont you worry your pretty little head about Tenn and this thread post, not on here for any other reason than pure wonder.

[Boris]

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please quit denying your unbelievably bad case of only loving asian girls. please. btw is your back better?

[img]/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img] J.

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J - I'm denying it. Although from the sounds of it, if I ever date a Thai chick I might catch the fever. It's nust a numbers game man. My back is better and I'm now kicking more azz than a 20 mule pack team. Thanks for the concern! Hope all is well in Mzla.

[buriedbeds]

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Truth be told I really dont want anything to do with a relationship right now. I've gone through two things recently that made me just decide that I'm quite ok with being by myself. I think it's just that period in my life.

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Yeah, me too. Or at least that's what I keep telling my penis right before I choke the bastard.

-bb.

[Lunger]

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I already know about that crap. All people want someone who they are attracted to, and I'd be a [censored] nit wit if I didnt assume that sex was important. I'm looking for what other things men are looking for.

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Now that you got those out of the way, I'll fill in the rest for me.

I look for a girl with integrity. She has to be honest, loyal, and trustworthy.

A girl who has a giving nature is a must. She should be sweet, serene, and supportive.

Flexibilty is another must have trait. Someone who has an open mind and a general willingness to try new things.

Oh yeah, she also has to be really into me.

Intelligence is also nice but I think the other things have more weight.

[IronDragon1]

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Ha ha ha. I'm not worried about anything. I made a joke in the random things thread about fearing not getting a man because they all want asian chicks . Which spurred two responses in particular, one of which from NT said something along the lines of finding a chick who doesnt mind skid marks while doing laundry is about as good as he hopes for.

Which got me thinking. Lots of posts are made on here about hot chicks, and cool chicks alike. I was simply curious as to what the OOTers look for in a chick. Not because I'm worried about finding a man.

Truth be told I really dont want anything to do with a relationship right now. I've gone through two things recently that made me just decide that I'm quite ok with being by myself. I think it's just that period in my life.

So dont you worry your pretty little head about Tenn and this thread post, not on here for any other reason than pure wonder.

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Good news: You have a wide variety of Asian men to choose as a potential mate

Bad news: You have a wide variety of Asian men to choose as a potential mate

Also, like most, the only thing I look for in a woman is that she's at least moderately attractive and has as many interests/mannerisms/personality traits as close to mine without it being too eerie or grating.

[Shajen]

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Ha ha ha. I'm not worried about anything. I made a joke in the random things thread about fearing not getting a man because they all want asian chicks.

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No way. I don't see how dudes can discriminate based on heritage. A hot chick is a hot chick is a hot chick. I have no preferences.