How Long Before You Say " I LuV U"?

[Darth Poker]

as long at it takes so that I'm positive that I'm not mistaking passionate infatuation for real love. in the two instances in my life where I actually did love the girl, it was easily a year or more before I'd feel comfortable saying it and meaning it. and I certainly wouldnt say it if I didnt mean it...that's just the way I am.

usually, the girl would say it far earlier - and I'm not sure that they weren't passionately infatuated and making the common mistake of not knowing where the real line differentiating the two feelings was.

[private joker]

There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

[TIEdup14]

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There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

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So far this is the best advice

[TheCroShow]

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There was a thread about this a while ago and my answer was: until you're sure it's not going to be a surprise to her. "I love you" and "Will you marry me?" are two things a guy should only say/ask when he's positive the response will be in the affirmative.

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So far this is the best advice

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had the "i love you" blow up in my face once, of course at the time i thought "eff it, i'll just give it a go and see what happens." DOH

[Sephus]

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I'm not mistaking passionate infatuation for real love

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i didn't know there was a difference.

[Fedfan691]

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usually, the girl would say it far earlier - and I'm not sure that they weren't passionately infatuated and making the common mistake of not knowing where the real line differentiating the two feelings was.

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I find it hard to believe any girl could be "passionately infatuated" with a guy who uses the username Darth Poker.

[SackUp]

after 23 BJs you are allowed to say it. Never before.

Before then she doesn't love you, so no reason to love her.

[mother_brain]

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after 23 BJs you are allowed to say it. Never before.

Before then she doesn't love you, so no reason to love her.

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yeah this seems good

[Gunny Highway]

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after 23 BJs you are allowed to say it. Never before.


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How about 23 BJs after she says it?

[DrewDevil]

So he says, "do you love me?"
And she says, "No, but that's a real nice ski mask!"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!