Kinda weird situation...

[El Diablo]

Yeti,

After your girlfriend blows me, you'll dump her and then we'll high-five and be best buds, right?

[Catch of the Day]

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After your girlfriend blows me, you'll dump her and then we'll high-five and be best buds, right?

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The sad part is that I have met guys like this, and I was completely blown away. It at least put things into perspective.

[ggbman]

I would be too. Infering that i am that type of guy from my OP would be prtty crazy though. I am not friend with those types of people.

[El Diablo]

gg,

If I were your friend, I'm not sure what would piss me off more, all your physical flirting w/ her or that AIM BS talking about me.

[El Diablo]

gg,

Why have you created a relationship w/ this girl where she feels it appropriate to come to you to complain about her boyfriend problems?

As someone said earlier, it's like you're "fake-dating" her and sure seems like, at least at some level, you want her.

[ggbman]

Wow dude you are a NUT. I didn't create any sort of relationship with her. I was sitting class today when she imed me and asked me if i wanted to go to that thing. i was sitting in my room when she imed be to bitch about her BF. When she did, i told her not to over-react.

She wanted to talk to me and tell me what was bothering her about the relationship tonight, so i went to dinner with her and one of her friends. Apparently this weekend, her BF got drunk, tired to kiss some othe chick, and was consistently trying to hook up with other chicks. She considers me a friend, and she wanted to vent. Maybe you have never had girls feel comfortable enough talking to you to have that experience? If so that is pretty sad. I think you constantly forget that they are both my friends, it's not I like i met her through him. He just happens to be my friend as well.

Also, at dinner i told her she reminded me of my sister. Even someone as thick as you are being right now knows you don't say that to someone you "want on some level." For me, our relationship is clearly defined, she just happens to feel comfortably talking to me about this stuff. Personally, she wouldn't be in my top 5 if i needed to vent, but it's not my fault she wants to discuss it with me.

[onthebutton]

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I was sitting class today when she imed me and asked me if i wanted to go to that thing. [...]

Apparently this weekend, her BF got drunk, tired to kiss some othe chick, and was consistently trying to hook up with other chicks. [...]

For me, our relationship is clearly defined


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For you, it's defined. Doesn't seem that she has the same definition.

Timeline:

She finds out her BF was trying to hook up with chicks.

She IMs you about going to this thing with her.

You somehow end up going to dinner with tonight, and she continues to complain about her BF.


I'd be highly suspicious of her motives here.

[ggbmanESmiHERO]

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gg,

If I were your friend, I'm not sure what would piss me off more, all your physical flirting w/ her or that AIM BS talking about me.

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gg,

Why have you created a relationship w/ this girl where she feels it appropriate to come to you to complain about her boyfriend problems?

As someone said earlier, it's like you're "fake-dating" her and sure seems like, at least at some level, you want her.

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El D,

You are retarded. You are most likely also a dumb mormon if you think ggbman's actions are off base.

'Physical flirting'

Please! I can only imagine when El D has people over. El D must have rules and regulations for what people who are in relationships can and can not do. Sitting on someones lap and harmlessly flirting is nothing sir. You must keep your women on a TIGHT leash El D! Or maybe its that you have never had a women and putting down college kids on a stupid poker forum is the only way you get off?

'AIM BS talking about me'

So you never talk to your friends online about relationships? Mi hero is quite obviously good friends with the girl in question. Talking about social problems is off base? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] They clearly have a relationship where they talk about each others problems...I know that is hard for someone like you to understand because 2+2 is your primary form of social interaction, but for super awesome people like the all mighty ggbman it is not uncommon to have bitches knocking down his door crying about their various problems.

[kipin]

You created a gimmick account to flame Diablo?

Ermmm, 'Nuff said.

[ggbman]

Diablo,

We talked on AIM and prtty much agreed to disagree. However, we both know that me not taking a strong stance against her being flirty and me not taking a strong stance against hooking up with me are different. I know you are trying to give an inflamatory example, but if i don't let something like that happen it's just not relevant. Anywho, i have gotten some good advice, we can let this thread die now.

Also FWIW, she imed me again after i posted this bitching about her BF

XXXXXXX: ew look at this
Kakmaster2003: what?
(she pastes a convo with her BF where he asks if he wants to go to dinner, she says she can't then he signs off


XXXXXXX: he just left
XXXXXXX: you dont do that lol
Kakmaster2003: i think you are reading too much into it
Kakmaster2003: he said they were about to leave
Kakmaster2003: asked you if you wanted to come
XXXXXXX: ok fine


My default play is always to try and help them smoothe things over, i have done it before and it's what i always try to do. I am not trying to hook up with this chick.