Would you be ok with your gf going skinny dipping with guys?

[krazyace5]

Many bad signs here

-still "friends" with ex, no way this should fly, any of her guy friends should also be friends of yours, otherwise bad news

-equal group of guys and gals planning to go skinny dipping, swimming with opposite sex equals playful wrestling.....naked......

-friends she hangs out with and you don't, in a good relationship you should have mutual friends except maybe 1 or 2 same sex stragglers from before you met.

-she is asking you for permission to get naked with other guys....hello...

also her asking ahead of time don't mean squat, women like to play sick little mind games, she will get a good laugh knowing she has your permission while she and he are "carousing".

Another thing her male friends need to respect your authority so to speak as the boyfriend, they are gonna think you are a real donk if you let her do this.

I totally agree with chipwrecked
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She is feeling you out. You have already given her the trump card by not standing your ground and forbidding it right away. She has lost all respect she might have had for you. The only way you gain the man's place in the relationship now is to break up with her. If you decide to take her back, you are in the driver's seat. If you let this go on, you have given her the pants. If that's OK with you, then proceed, by all means. At this point, your balls are in her purse. You'd better get them back, pronto, before they shrivel.


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put yourself in her shoes and ask these ?'s as if it was the other way around, the whole thing stinks

regardless, good luck to ya

[CPSUpoker]

If my girlfriend asked if she could do somethin like this, I'd slap her then say, "BITCH, GET BACK IN THE KITCHEN."

[ChipWrecked]

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women like to play sick little mind games

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It took me a long time to learn. Feminism really screwed things up. I like and respect women, and that killed me in the relationship arena for years.

'Nice, sensitive, caring' guys finish last. In sex and relationships, humans are still animals. A woman wants to be with a tough, fighting, protector and provider. That's why the jock creeps who treat women like sh1t get all the hot high school girls. The girl will trade 'being treated nicely' for 'feeling protected'. She wants to raise her brood in a safe cave.

If you dither about these things, you lose.

[kurosh]

Ok, apparently it was a misunderstanding and I have a tendancy to overreact. It would be her, her best friend (male), another guy she's friends with and a girl. I know all of them besides the girl. They were considering inviting her ex because he's very good friends with all of them, but had not yet. There were no plans of skinny dipping. I think she just got upset because I asked her if they were and she took it as accusatory so she said if it happens, she'd do it. Now that she's explained everything to me, I am fine. The chances of them skinny dipping at all were extremely low in the first place. Yes, this is my ex-gf that was causing me lots of grief and indirectly got me kicked out of college. Can we move the discussion off the specific situation and onto the topic in general now? All these posts about her being a whore and cheating on me make me paranoid.

[Yeti]

Now I know there's another girl involved, I am somewhat less opposed to the whole thing.

[krazyace5]

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her best friend (male)

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Hope her best friend is gay. 95% of womans male friends are only friends because they want to get laid or have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

[ChipWrecked]

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Can we move the discussion off the specific situation and onto the topic in general now?

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Is there a difference?

"Do you mind if I go skinny dipping with some friends?"

"Not at all, just pack your [censored] and get out first."

Edit: Jeez, I talk too much. Choicest Hops ended this thread with the first response.

[Adam Stewart]

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All these posts about her .... cheating on me make me paranoid.


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ding, ding, ding ding!



Adam