Would you be ok with your gf going skinny dipping with guys?

[kurosh]

I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

[mason55]

At least she didn't sleep with the livestock...

[Zurvan]

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I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

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So they're taking bathing suits, but might decide to take them off? This is her ex-bf, and that group of friends doesn't like you?

I would hate the idea regardless, but I'm weird like that. Given this new information, I would say that you definitely do NOT want this to happen. I know you trust her, but this smells funny. She clearly felt weird about it, or thought you might not like it, which likely means she was thinking it might be wrong. Or thought that you might think it was wrong.

I would be honest with her, and say you wouldn't want her skinny dipping (if that's how you feel), and that the idea makes you uncomfortable. If she has a swimsuit, she can just NOT take it off - that's pretty easy. If they're her friends, they should have no problem with that, right? If she has a problem with that, I would really want to know why.

Pretty simple, IMO.

[Daliman]

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I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

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Ok, let me see if I have this all down right;

- This group of her friends don't like you.
- It includes her ex-boyfriend.
- She was initially evasive about it.
- You had to press her to get the details, and even suspected something amiss.
- Swimsuits WILL be there, but they may skinny dip anyways.
- She will do it if they want to, e.g. SHE wants to do it.


Sounds TOTALLY innocent.

On an unrelated note, can your GF sleep with me in my bed? Naked? We won't have sex.

Actually, none of this matters. I guarantee she has done this(and worse) before, and will again either way. You either need to break up with her or get used to dating a slut.

But first, stick it in her pooper

[gorie]

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I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

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So they're taking bathing suits, but might decide to take them off? This is her ex-bf, and that group of friends doesn't like you?

I would hate the idea regardless, but I'm weird like that. Given this new information, I would say that you definitely do NOT want this to happen. I know you trust her, but this smells funny. She clearly felt weird about it, or thought you might not like it, which likely means she was thinking it might be wrong. Or thought that you might think it was wrong.

I would be honest with her, and say you wouldn't want her skinny dipping (if that's how you feel), and that the idea makes you uncomfortable. If she has a swimsuit, she can just NOT take it off - that's pretty easy. If they're her friends, they should have no problem with that, right? If she has a problem with that, I would really want to know why.

Pretty simple, IMO.

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i agree with this !

the fact that her friends don't like you, would make me especially uneasy. but mainly because i've had really bad experience in the past being accepting of my boyfriend staying friends with someone that didn't like me.

[mslif]

WTF!!!! Naked girl+naked guys= SEX or at least touching... Don't be a fool!

[jakethebake]

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At least she didn't sleep with the livestock...

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Brilliant!

[amoeba]

would she be ok with you skinny dipping with an ex?

[voltron.]

I'm stopping the fight here. I don't have any problem with her going swimming with other guys, just not all naked.

[Adam Stewart]

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I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

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Man, open your eyes! You're so in denial right now.


[i]The fact that she is socializing with a group of friends who don't like you should raise flags - not to mention that she wants to go skinny dipping with them! Not to mention one of them is her ex-boyfried! Come on...



Adam